So, since I was diagnosed with Peyronies Disease a little over 7 months ago, I've been steering clear of women. Well, wouldn't you know it...seems since I'm not looking, apparently they're looking for me. I've been successful (define successful) thwarting advances saying that I'm seeing someone else (not true) or just taking a break from dating or being too busy with work etc. to give any effort toward a relationship. Friends and family try to set me up but again, I either ignore it or make up lame excuses.
I'm 41...never been married, no kids but decent looking and keep myself in good shape. But, I do want to settle down and do want kids and the window is closing the older I get. Anyway, this gal I work with, "Kristy" who's 30 and gorgeous/fun/smart sent me an email a few weeks ago asking if I'd like to meet her and some other co-workers to a local, semi-pro hockey game.  I went, had a great time and toward the end of the night...she told me she's had a "thing" for me for over a year now and then landed a passionate good night kiss.....YIKES!!!! Normally, I'd have been super stoked but now I'm terrified. I haven't used my crank with anyone since I was diagnosed, I've got a 30 degree bend up and now a slight curve to the right...it's not a pretty sight. I can get erect but geeesh....I'm just not sure.
Anyway, I like her too but again am terrified of things going too far without telling her what's really going on. She said she wants to come to my place and hang out soon but again....YIKES!!!!
I know sex isn't everything but realistically, if I tell her the truth what can I expect? I could keep my lies going and push her away but again, I'm not getting any younger and should really take advantage of opportunities when they present themselves. Plus, I'm a bit lonely and this "act" I have to present is taking it's toll on me. I'm lost at this point....any advice??

You can get erect as you wrote. That's really what women care about in my experience. From her view you may not even have anything wrong with you. Except you go ahead and make a big fuss out of it beforehand. I would definitely not recommend that. Just meet her and if you're getting lucky be happy about it and relax. Chances are she won't even notice. If she does I would just say the truth matter of factly, you hurt yourself during sex, now it's a little bent out of shape. Stranger things happen.

Thanks emasculated, I hear you. As you all know (especially those who are single) there's a high level of anxiety that goes along with this condition. Perhaps I should master the art of cunnilingus and keep my junk out of it for a while...or at least until I'm confident physically and mentally.
I hope my post didn't sound self absorbing, that's not what I was going for....just trying to figure this all out. Bottom line...it sucks!

I agree with Emasculated, if you can get erect, you're fine. She might not even notice.

I went through a divorce recently and was terrified about entering the dating world at 35 with, what was in my view, a "damaged" penis. I ended up meeting a really nice woman and we communicated a lot about sex before we had it. We had both been married and we each had our own baggage about sex and things that had happened to us. I told her about my Peyronie's one night when we were talking and she was tremendously supportive and kind. When we finally got around to fooling around, she saw it, looked at me and said, "What the hell dude? There's nothing wrong with your dick!" I was tremendously relieved.

We have been having wonderful sex for the last several months and all the while communicating with each other about our likes, dislikes, and fears; we are very open with each other. The kind of woman you want to stick around is not going to judge you harshly for this. I have come to learn that women, too, have many, many insecurities about their own genitals, some of which we would never guess they had. Most women wouldn't think that Peyronie's is a big deal.

Long story short: go get her! Be open, fun, and lighthearted about it. You'll be fine.

-Skjaldborg

you're the man Skjaldborg...thanks for the feedback! She's been texting me tonight saying she can't wait to see me outside of work again. I'll keep ya'll in the loop and let you know how things go....

Ketric

I was offline for two days so here is my late answer:
Go out from this terrified mood.
I understand you don't have ED, be self confident and go on it. You don't have what to lose.
You will find out if she is for you or not. Have many other things that attracts a woman to a man except his dick.
I will quote something that Hawk posted ones:

QuoteSome shallow female never built a woman to go along with her vagina.

And I agree 100% with emasculated, it is happening rarely :

Quoteyou go ahead and make a big fuss out of it beforehand. I would definitely not recommend that

Good luck and best wishes in the subject, I am sure you will not disappoint her.

James

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