Ive had this for about 13 years now. I'm 52 my wife is 49. Up until 13 years ago our sex life was great. In fact, I had to be careful, because I would hurt her sometimes. I am now 1/2 the size. I have no pain with this. I love sex, always have.
13 years later, my wife came to me and told me she doesn't know if she can handle this any longer.
Over the past 13 years, I've used toys to help us out which I did before I had this, but she does not want those as much anymore. I know she loves me and will probably deal with this, but I feel so degraded. I try to please her in bed every way possible. She does have orgasms, so do I.
But she misses me hitting that spot.
I love her beyond words can say. I do not know where to turn. What do I say to her?

I do not have insurance by the way.

13 years without treatment is a long time.
I am proposing you to read what other members are doing, first read:
Peyronies Survival Guide - Information for New Members - Peyronies Society Forums
I am proposing you to start a treatment that includes VED (carefully not to over-pump), Pentox, low dose Cialis and Ubiquinol.
As you don't have insurance, you can buy Pentox and 20 mg Cialis (cut the Cialis to 4 or 5 to reduce cost) at:
https://www.riverpharmacy.ca/index.php
Many of us bought medications from them.

James

You didn't mention any symptoms other than being half your original size. Is size alone the problem? Are there issues with ED, etc.

I know you are looking at what to tell her, but I have to wonder if there is something you can do.