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Author Topic: 45yo Have peyronies 3yrs from(Swimming Pool injury) desperatey needing advice!!  (Read 1392 times)

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BrokeDickWV

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Got peyronies by doing something really stupid. While in a swimming pool my wife was tugging on my balls. Since I have a high pain threshold in my Genital region I told her to pull harder. She was in amazement how much I could handle. She pulled with all her might. Then she proceeded to grab my penis and I told her to try the same, she was almost apprehensive (probably god sending a message) I told her to pull like she did with my balls, it didn’t really faze me but after maybe 6-8 seconds pulling I felt a pop and she did too. Nothing seemed wrong until about a month later I got a hard erection and the penis had a massive bend upwards and I noticed it wasn’t as large as it normally was.  After the erection went down i inspected the shaft area and noticed hard sides from the middle all the way to the head. When I pinched it felt like concrete inside extending all the way across the whole width of my shaft all the way to the head. The hard lump doesn’t move with my skin it is stationary and feels like hard scar tissue. I would also like to add when flaccid my shaft has  an hourglass shape to it with the slimmest pasty being in the middle of my shaft.

I got worried and did a frantic google search and all signs pointed to peyronies. Went to family doc embarrassed by what I had done and he basically said surgery is risky and not even that promising. He said it should go away On it’s own within a year or as long as two.  Well it’s been three years and maybe 25% less scar tissue inside but still there and debilitating. I was 7” and much thicker than average before injury. Now I’m lucky to get to 5” erect and lost a lot of my thickness. This has mentally f'^+'Erectile Dysfunction me hard in the sexual dept with my marriage. At first she said she doesn’t notice the size difference, but one day i was comparing an old penis pic to my current state and i said cant you see the difference and she said yes. She finally admitted to it. And I know she feels the difference.

Now I’m stuck with severe performance anxiety from this and be lucky to get a decent full erection once per month. Before the injury we were very active sexually 3-4 week. Now my mind is so messed up I have resorted to cuckold fantasies where larger men have sex with my wife, that has turned into reality, and now we are active lifestyle members of the swinger community. She is the active one because have no confidence anymore. Going into this lifestyle was brought about solely by me fueled by my inadequateness with the injury. I’m not complaining as i do enjoy watching my wife getting pleasured, but if this never happened I doubt i would have had  such extreme thoughts about cuckolding. I’ve tried pills over the counter and prescription based alhough they help get the erection it reminds me of a pig dick that’s a corkscrew and i lose all confidence. I did buy a bathmate water pump it seems to help short term was wondering if it will correct my problem. Sorry for writing such a drawn out first post but I am honestly at my wits end and could use some good advice what to do with this! Please spare me the lol’s etc.. I would probably laugh too but I’m seriously needing some help and I haven’t had one person to talk to about this disease. Thanks for reading

Added note: While researching I came across this new shot called the Priapus Shot basically stem cell tech for your penis where they take your own blood and put it in a centrifuge spin it down to the blood rich platelets and inject into the penis. See reports of it adding up to 40% growth length and thickness. Has anyone heard of this treatment and know any info about it? Docs here in WV looked at me like i was  joking. I guess because of the name Priapus (god of fertility?)
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Man, why did you have to cuckold yourself. I must admit my feeling of frustration of my own 7.5 inch thick dick going to 5.5 average or even less, not very thick dick made feel me similar in my last relationship but F~@<, that is the worst crap you can do.

Did you try using VED, Traction consistently to restore size? It has been proved to restore size. You might also seriously think about surgery, you need to fix your dick man and stop being in mental pain. God dammnit, this is really f'~@<Erectile Dysfunction.
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No research to show that shot helps w peyroines, Erectile Dysfunction maybe.  Find a specialist and consider xiaflex.   Meanwhile maybe pentox, low dose cialis or viagra daily and traction and or VED daily.  Surgery is always a option.  Hang in there and this is a great place fior support during your journey.  Don’t sweat the swinging if you enjoy it...you’re still together.
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Kind of fell into the cuckold thing, if that’s the correct terminology. I’m not some  sissy man that sits in the corner and gets belittled etc, more like invite someone else in the mix I use as a “tool” to get the job done. Was totally my idea to wife, researched and talked about it for months before diving in. I figured I better do something or her mind would wander or secretly think of other men sexually. Which is probably totally my insecurities thinking for me.  Physically and mentally I’m far from inferior, but inside when it comes to my manhood and what it has become I feel like crap and insecure. 

Thanks for the info ideas I have been on this site for 4 hours now since I posted this initial post and have gained so much info on the subject. I have vowed everything humanly possible to reverse this bitch of a condition and that’s starting by quitting smoking and on a strict diet today.  I also finished an 80 minute
Daily warmup-stretch-jelq-pump (hydro water pump)- jelq-cooldown I’m about to head out and get a notebook to document everything I do until this nightmare is over. Thanks for the input guys. Any more from anyone is much appreciated.
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Hi, maybe consider not jelquing as may re-injure and aggravate peyronies.  Consider the VED (hydro water pump) at no more than 70% erection Max. Three minutes, release and repeat up to 15 minutes times two a day or thirty minutes x 1/day.  Or see protocol here.
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Wow, I thought the cuckold thing was a porn fantasy thing!
Doesn't the wifey have vibrator/s, your relationship must be very strong to entertain inviting other men into the bedroom.

Why not drop the jelqs and just manually stretch instead, jelqs are dangerous aren't they as they require erection or partial erection and pressures of the hand is not constant.

F^@%, I hope this site helps you man  :)
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Hey dude... What chances do you have to see a sexual medicine specialist in California? I'm talking about #1 doctor in America...
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There's a clinic near Columbus,Ohio that does the Priapus shots . Look them up on the web .Also there's one in Painesville,Ohio. That's who did mine.
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Opening ones relationship is not giving away ones wife...different strokes for different folks ;)
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Cheesenip, he said he has the fantasies, he enjoys seeing his wife be pleasured by another man...if it’s working for them great, if not they can stop...this is consensual nothing at all like cheating on your partner.
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Well, i guess if you have this problem, and are somehow in relationship, it's easy to lose "frame" and do such "compromises" to have a more stabile relationship. At least i would see it in that way. I must admit anxiety about other males sex prowess and size and getting cuck anxiety since i started having this crap and gone from a big dick to under averageish one, but size can be restored with time and no one should, in my opinion allow such stuff, no matter the cause. We are born to be man, made with big and functional dicks and attitude to match it and much can be done about this condition, no matter how hard it is to see yourself - once exceptionally potent and capable, becoming sexually useless and lose up to half of your penis by this injury, i don't think giving in to depression and cuckolding yourself is ever a option. I would rather leave all women behind and go to the army or something similary agressive and devoid of women then accept complete defeat and submit my manhood and authority and accept such inferiority. I must admit i was plagued by thoughts of cuckolding when i was uncapable sexually with my ex and when she obvously lied about importance of size and my impotence and prem ej. on her and talked to her (bigger than me now, but without a doubt smaller than what i was when 16) ex every day. Size is important, it's psychological, but also important physical category, we are not our dicks - but our dicks are part of us like our looks are, our hair is, our status is and other quallities - i think that's why there is a concept of "compensation", and stuff like "small dick - big car", and if someone can get 3 inch bigger penis jelqing and doing penile exercises with dedication for two years, i think, and it has been proved that size can be restored with traction and ved for this condition, and implant can restore function - no one should give up or accept feelings of inferiority and anxious thoughts and concept such as cuckolding.
This is just my opinion on cuckolding, shaped completely by just my view on it, and others can see it diferently, but i could never submit to this disease in that way, tho i can't do relationships with girls and avoid them untill i solve this properly, so maybe that is just other side of the coin.
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