self esteem issues

[CONFUSED2]

I am concerned that I am in a confusing relationship yet very sexual.  I have not been concerned about my partners curvature but was unaware that he was taking cialis.  We were having sex every day and it was often painful.  He couldn't seem to get enough.  While we appeared to be in a very easy relationship I found some on line cheating.  I was shocked as he was obviously developing a relationship with this person from a foreign country.  He appears to be so good to me yet wants to finish the relationship every couple of months when he appears burnt out and depressed.  Is this the medication.

I am very hurt and disappointed as he cheated in his marriage and with his previous girlfriend.  I can't believe it is just a self esteem issue.

[Hawk]

Confused,

Clearly we cannot begin to make judgement on what motivates your partner.  If he has an established track record of being unfaithful and you had to catch him being dishonest with you, how do you trust him?  There certainly is nothing about the medication that makes a man dishonest or untrustworthy.

[james1947]

CONFUSED2

Somehow, I don't understand you. You have written:

I found some on line cheating

&

wants to finish the relationship every couple of months

&

he cheated in his marriage and with his previous girlfriend

But you continue to be with him like everything is OK when it is NOT.
It is not an advice to any direction, is just a point of view.

Welcome to the forum
James