Ongoing problem anything I can do?

[jreal160]

 Hey guys its been about 2 years now since i suffered a minor penile fracture during sex. It came out hit her pelvis and made a loud pop and immediatley got soft. It hurt for a split sec then all the pain was gone I was even able to get another erection and finish without any problem. In the next few days i really didnt notice anything outside a little bruising/ small hematoma around my dorsal vein to the left a little in the middle. I kept having sex not thinking it was a big deal and went and saw a urologist and explained to him what had happend. He started off telling me to lay off my penis for up to 6 months! He told me to take aspirin and see if it would get better. Being a 24 year old at the time living with his GF this was impossible since i wasent in severe pain or anything. Longest i could go was maybe 3 weeks.... My penis was still a little sore and i was noticing dark blue veins i usually couldnt see on the surface and when i am flaccid at times it can look sort of scrunched up and wrinkled. So i go back to the urologist and he says their is surgery and stuff they can do but he didnt want too because the risk of ED and me being so young and it seeming to be a minor fracture. So he perscribed me this cream and basically told me to wait another 6 months using this. During this time i started developing a little curvature. It sounds gross but its mainly in between erect and flaccid or when im using the restroom #2. It sometimes hourglasses and sometimes the base will be super thick and it gets more narrow as it goes up. Needless to say this is VERY annoying.

I finally went changed up my urologist and saw a specialist this guy first thing he did was ultra sound it which the previous DR never did. When we got the results he seriously tells me it looks like you have a little plauqe but since you can get an erection and have sex without too many issue's i dont see the problem basically saying theirs nothing i can do and taking my money from me.... He also said he didnt think further sex would make it any worse. Since it has gotten slightly worse now it sort of leans to the left along with the occasional hour glassing or what not. Its so annoying I dont want to risk ED but they act like theirs nothing wrong when my penis is clearly deformed and doesnt feel like it should. It seems less scrunched up and what not flaccid now when i lay off and ive been lifting weights and doing cardio hard daily i guess thats making my blood flow better. But is there not anything that can be done without risking ED? If someone i really could lay off for 6 months keep using this aspirin and icing and exercising could it get better? Its just so annoying I was in a long term relationship with that chick and its over now and now im 26 and its just really scary/embarassing as it doesnt feel quite as hard and stuff and im very very paranoid about a girl getting on top usually wont even do it.  

[popopo]

Hey man, what you're saying about your doctor thinking "it's fine", sounds very familiar. I had this happen to me too. I was 17 when I had these symptoms you describe and when the doctor tslked to me like that I was shocked and kinda angry that he didnt seem to take me seriously.

I also had different worries (doctors say body dysmorphia, I say borderline-testosterone levels resulting in a feminine body shape something that emasculated me further) and combine the two and you start feeling like: "Are these people blind or am I really imagining things?"

Now a few years later I can finally understand why doctors do this.. It's not thst they dont want to help you, there just really is NOTHING they can do except for offering you psychllogical help to deal with your crap.

Lucky for you, you might have found this site on time. You should read more about cialis and pentox. And maybe traction or VED. Those are in short the most effective treatments available, but it's defenitely not a cure it just aids the healong process by allowing more bloodflow. Ow and also.. if you evef decide to do VED, traction kr ant mind of stretching you should be very carefull. You won't be the first guy to hurt himself getting too ebthusiastic with these.

[NeoV]

I can second what popopo says. I was 17 or 18 when the urologist told me nothing can be done as well. The treatments that are effective are all outlined here, whether or not they will help you 100% definitively is unsure, but that really isn't the point is it? We just have to do what we can, and move on.
Study these treatments and study the literature, then use them, and consider all aspects of the disease. Rest your penis for a long period if necessary.

Health and penile health are a slipper slope, you have to fight like hell, and expect little. It's like me and my elbows, if I lift weights now my hands hurt so bad, and I will probably need surgery to move both ulnar nerves. This is purely due to my body structure and genetics. Some people are just not made for certain activities, wait no, rather some people have a harder time on certain aspects of health and the activity related to them. Some people smoke their entire lives and seem fine, others have vascular issues, cancer, diabetes, for no real reason, or are just more prone to it. Nobody is immune to problems, in fact we are all guaranteed nearly all health issues so long as we live long enough to experience them. Remember that a lot of men have scarring on their penises and they don't even notice it, which was shown from an old study which looked at dead bodies (found 1/4th of men had scarring).

This is no reason to give up, but rather a reason to keep fighting, and without having expectations. It's the old paradox in self improvement, how do you improve while at the same time accepting yourself? We have to contemplate this and practice this, even when faced with something as crushing as Peyronie's.

In summary, I don't think Peyronie's is in essence, purely genetic or purely a wear and tear disease. It's a bit of both as are almost all things (yes I understand there are extreme cases which appear to be one or the other).

You have to be playful with the next girl you're with. Tell her not to be on top, smile at her and laugh at it. Show her where it bends and tell you it hurts like hell but you're till turned on. I joked with my wife all the time, talking about my dick and her body. It's all supposed to be fun and or funny, even if you are imperfect. Unfortunately it can be impossible to develop that kind of personality or ability without seeing it first, but try, and look around you and try to see what kinds of attitudes other sexually successful people have, or just successful people in general have. One can spend decades stuck in a particular pattern of behavior, only to see an alternative later displayed by a friend or acquaintance, and change radically in several days, fixing what seemed to be an eternal problem. It's hard to believe this, I know. At a certain point of pain you will let go, and start to be more free. The biggest issue is how having this disease makes us wonder, are we OK or not? And we as humans love to go back and forth between acceptance and repulsion. The truth is neither, we are neither OK or disgusting. We are nothing and everything, changing always subjectively.