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[DariusG]

Hello,

I have had Peyronies for under a year now, I am in the chronic phase at this point and I have been seeing a woman for a few months now. We have had excellent oral sex, I want to progress our actual relationship to the next level (ex. girlfriend) but our penetrative sex has not been as satisfying as sex that I have had with previous women in the past.

What I mean, is that the woman I am seeing now, does not seem to "feel the full pleasure" of penetrative sex because I have a dorsal curvature of Peyronies and I do not think I am getting enough blood flow to the tip of my penis.

Even though I am thankful we are able to have intercourse, I suppose I am not satisfied with the level of satisfaction that I am able to give her. I am 27 years old - I have been seeing this woman for a few months now.

Has anyone had a similar experience with the lack of sensation with penetrative sex if their partner has a dorsal curvature, and if so do you have any advice?

Thank you so much - I appreciate it!

Darius

[Hawk]

This is usually an area for women to initiate topics but we will leave this here for the time being. 

I am pretty confused by your post. Most women would slightly prefer a dorsal curve to another curve or maybe even no curve.   

Are you saying that she does not enjoy penetrative sex as much as other women?  How can you compare women?  all women are different.  If other women enjoyed penetrative sex with you how could the problem be your curve?

Almost 70% of women cannot have an orgasm with only penetration.  Maybe she is just a woman who needs other stimulation?

[DariusG]

Hi Hawk,

Sorry about that - I did not know where to post. I was actually looking for a woman's perspective so I posted it in here. She is my first partner since developing Peyronie's.

I think because of the plaque on the dorsal aspect, I am not able to get proper blood flow to the glans and I feel like that is decreasing the sensation of penetrative sex for her.

I wanted to see if anyone or any couples had experienced this as well, and if so, if they had any advice.

Thank you again, and if you think I should post in a different area of the forum I will do so!

Darius

[Hawk]

I assume she told you that penetrative sex with you seems less satisfying?

What does she thinks causes this?

What if a guy had full blood flow and was slightly smaller than you?

The most vaginal sensation is just inside the opening and tends to be more focused on the top of the opening right behind the citrous.  I have trouble believing that an erection with a glans less than fully engorged is even noticeable, much less interferes with her satisfaction.  I think the best thing is to experiment with a slender toy or even a finger to have her identify when the pressure feels the best.  Then with some angle adjustment, you can focus on that area during intercourse. For example, pillow under her butt, her on her side with you in missionary position, etc.

Ask her if she normally can have orgasms from just penetration.  If so, she is in the minority.  There are many ways to provide added stimulation during intercourse.

[DariusG]

Hey Hawk,

Thank you for responding. Yes, she did tell me that. She had already understood my situation before we had intercourse and afterwards we were both under the same impression that it was most likely due to the lack of blood flow to the glans.

However, I am very thankful for your advice regarding angle adjustments. I think that may work very well and I will try it next time.

Thank you again for your advice.

Darius

[Stabler]

Hi Darius,

Is this partner someone that you had sex with before Peyronie’s? I guess I wonder if the two if you were able to please each other before and now are having the issue. It could be that a change of position could help but as Hawk said many women do not orgasm with intercourse. If this is a situation where you both want or need more than oral satisfaction then you will need to try other positions. It may benefit you to talk about what she needs in order to reach climax.

Stabler

[DariusG]

Hi Stabler,

Thank you very much for your advice. I did not have sex with her before Peyronies because I had met her afterwards. However, I will try to take that advice and ask her more about her needs. I suppose that will make me feel a little bit better about the situation.

Thank you again!

Darius

[Hawk]

What I said about exploring with a toy or a finger to find her most sensitive area requires communication.  For some, that may seem strange and it is not something for a one-night stand, but it will make you the best lover she has ever known.

Years back someone posted a link to a site with a one-time fee.  I was suspicious that it was a standard porn SPAM link.  I checked it out and it piqued my interest.  I would recommend it to any guy who wants to please a woman and any woman who has not explored her own sexuality.  --->https://www.omgyes.com/

I see they now have two separate one-time fees.  The first is for "outercourse" (pleasure with no penetration).  It is all by women explaining what they have found that works the best.  The second is penetration-related tips.  Warning, it probably classifies as hardcore porn or at least soft porn but it is so vast I think anyone of either sex could pick up some tips from it.  The site is everything it claims to be.

[DariusG]

Hawk,

What an excellent find. Thank you so much. I will look more into that!

Darius

[Hawk]

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