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Curvekiller94

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I’ve been blaming myself for being too sexually active and potentially causing the problem myself. But the more I look into it it’s not our sex lives that caused this, it’s bad luck that caused this. Don’t get me wrong might some people have had blunt trauma that sparked this or severe bending during sex sure. But even then it’s still bad  luck

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.sportbible.com/football/football-news-mauro-icardi-has-sex-with-wife-wanda-nara-12-times-a-day-20210318.amp.html

People literally snap their dicks in the Middle East and “Severe, acute trauma of penile fracture and moderate, chronic buckling injury of taqaandan are not associated with later development of Peyronies Disease. These findings question whether the hypothesis that trauma, trauma-induced smoldering inflammatory cascade and aberrant wound healing are the main causes of Peyronies Disease. “
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15201768/
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26 y/o
sex injury that gradually got worse
Hard flaccid, Indentation bottom left close to my body,  mild twist left
28° up 28° Left
official diagnosed peyronies w/pain
Pentox, restorex, l-arginine, cq10, NSAID, tramadol(as needed)
Gf is supportive

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2021, 02:15:43 PM »

it is human nature to take responsibility of bad things that happen.
In the past, if a storm would come out, people would think they angered the gods and it was their fault.
Rape victim and abuse victim almost always feel like it was their fault all along.
In the same way, having something like this happen that changes the way you look at sex for the rest of your life is massive so it's understandable that we feel as if we brought it onto ourselves. But as many specialists told me indeed the way peyronie's delevops isn't understood and it seems like there is a big genetic factor.
So ye getting rid of the guilt is an important step to process any kind of grief
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20 yo, Peyronies Disease 2020(55 degrees down) + congenital curve
loss of length, stable erection, sensation. hourglassing
antioxidants, hyaluronic acid injected & oral, maybe Yachia in future
Recently started VED 2x a week
Still wants sex and a relationship

Curvekiller94

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2021, 06:13:25 PM »

Thanks for the input. As you understand getting the disease young is really tough praying modern medicine fixes it soon
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26 y/o
sex injury that gradually got worse
Hard flaccid, Indentation bottom left close to my body,  mild twist left
28° up 28° Left
official diagnosed peyronies w/pain
Pentox, restorex, l-arginine, cq10, NSAID, tramadol(as needed)
Gf is supportive

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #3 on: May 10, 2021, 06:09:52 PM »

I couldn’t agree more, I was also shocked when I saw that same study you mentioned. It’s my theory that it’s a mix of a bunch of crap, that triggers some odd form of wound healing. If you really do research on inflammation, you will find it’s not so cut and dry as it’s made to be in many studies or articles. Don’t beat yourself up dude. In my opinion stress and emotions play a big role, so take care of those. Listen to what dr Levine tells you if it makes sense, follow a treatment protocol and roll with it
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Penis injury in late 2017. A lump formed at injury site that caused no deformity, just pain and a palpable lump. Pain is improving through proper rest and use, diet, and mindfulness. I am always learning and looking to share things that have helped.

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #4 on: May 28, 2021, 09:02:13 AM »

The worst part of the disorder is knowing that it is self-inflicted through risky practices.

My relationship came to an end when my girlfriend left me for my friend, and I was so distraught I masturbated multiple times in a row as a sort of comfort, I wasn't thinking straight as I was so upset.

Now I have full blown peyronies disease as well as losing the girl I love.

If it wasn't my fault I could accept it, but I blame myself and that's what kills me.

I would give anything to be able to go back in time and change what has happened.
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30 yo - Single
Dent and relatively mild Erectile Dysfunction 2012
Worsening in 2021 with a slight curvature and increased indentation

BrettC

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #5 on: May 28, 2021, 12:51:04 PM »

I don't think most of us can target when or why we developed Peyronie's.  I am finding most men don't recall a trauma, and I certainly do not.  The truth is we think of penises as these super strong organs and they are in that they take a lot of abuse and spring back.  We just all have some weird propensity and developed plaque in a place that interferes with our erections. 

You can't blame yourself no matter what.  It was fated... either genetically or some sort of way. 
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Diagnosed just over a year and a half with 40-45 degree upward bend after starting with 60-65 degrees.
Completed one full round of treatments with Xiaflex (8 injections) 
Using Restorex and oral medications as well (Pentox, Cialis)

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #6 on: May 28, 2021, 01:36:24 PM »

Yea it’s sucks man. Dennis Rodman snapped his dick 3 times and it seems like he is functioning normally with mention of Peyronie’s diesease. He stated that docotrs took picutre and brought people or to see it because it was so mangles up. But he just asked for

https://youtu.be/p3zDKkoNMcg

It’s so crazy how it develops for people like us and here is this man going crazy with sex snapping it 3 times. But nothing happens
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34 yrs Old, Healthy very active
Possibly injured penis or took too much Cialis
Symptoms starting January-February 2021
First dent seen April 4, 2021, painful erections

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Re: Chances are it wasn’t your fault bad genes or bad luck or both
« Reply #7 on: May 28, 2021, 03:04:54 PM »

Wow, I feel slightly less reckless in my sexual activity now. Dennis' instrument has certainly seen some punishment.
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Dent and relatively mild Erectile Dysfunction 2012
Worsening in 2021 with a slight curvature and increased indentation
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