Nervous and confused

[Jet]

Hi everyone,

Will try to make this brief. I'm 27 and had sex with a partner 3 weeks ago and she came down on my penis awkwardly, painful in the moment but continued on. The next day I felt a small lump on the top of my shaft below the head, which subsided pretty quickly over time. Most noticeable change was my penis feeling hard and tense while flaccid, I assume this is the "hard flaccid" symptom. This is still the case three weeks later.

Erections have no curve currently. I have noticed my girth seems slightly larger when erect from what I remember, potentially swelling?

I went to a urologist a couple days ago. He pulled and felt around then pretty much told me my penis was fine and that he felt no plaque and to come back if I notice any changes. He said to go ahead and continue sex or masturbation if I wanted. It was a quick exchange. (Hard to tell if this is what most urologists say to all their patients if there is no obvious diagnosis)

Most recently, I have noticed a quite pronounced hour glass figure while semi erect. This was pretty distressing to find. Once I get fully erect the penis fills out and the hourglass disappears.

As many of us are, I am kind of a nervous wreck right now and am just simply confused on what I should be concerned with and what's normal.

Should I revisit a urologist and explain to him this hourglassing shape I'm experiencing while semi-erect?

Didn't do a great job making this short, but thanks for taking the time to read and for any comments. Hope you all are doing well.

-Jet

[Godisreal]

If I were you I would rest from activity for a while, tell your girl your dick needs rest lol
It sounds like "pre-peyronies" to me, but it doesn't necessarily mean you'll get full blown peyronies... if that makes sense
Just because you have hourglassing and a lump doesn't mean it's gonna get hell a lot worse.
I did a mistake when I had your symptoms, I went to a doc who performed a pretty aggressive examination which left me even worse than I was before. Horrible experience.
Anyway, I'd also stay away from stressful thoughts and anxiety. It doesn't help in any way.
If you just take it easy and rest from activity, you'll be fine according to me.
Hope this helps
- Godisreal

[melting]

Sounds like you had an injury/trauma and the pelvic floor reacted to it.
I'm sorry that you probably got one of the bad doctors. Cause if you think logically about what happened then doing any more sexual activity right now seems foolish even if the doc doesn't find anything RN.
Anything out of ordinary is most probably related to your injury and/or possibly the mental stress of it(try to get away from that towards solution focused logic).

Peyronies is diagnosed when a penis injury or inflammation results in a hard plaque. This can take weeks or many months.. Until then the doc might not find anything and deem you healthy.

What you can do right now is to help getting the inflammation down. Doctors can prescribe pentox. You can eat healthy. You can use oral supplements. You can apply anti inflammatory transdermals right to the site of injury(which requires some research - check my posts about dmso - and DIY).
Not everyone with a penis injury gets peyronies, for some it heals normal.

For HF symptoms it's about relaxing the tension and there's a lot of info about it around.