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Title: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: Kobegianna on May 29, 2021, 05:26:14 PM
Been depressed and at home for 6 months. I'm going out to party and getTing trashed. Might as well try to have fun and forget about this crap

Post title edited for senseless obscenity.  Hawk
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: Mikel7 on May 30, 2021, 06:43:20 AM
You realise that alcohol is a depressant.  I would say just out to party and have a coke. The next day you will feel better.  :)
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: RichardWilson99 on May 30, 2021, 07:36:19 AM
Absolutely go out and get trashed man!  You gotta keep living life and learn to fake it til you make it.

I'm not sure where you are in your peyronies, but when I get really trashed my guy will feel shriveled. Just be weary of that.

Just don't drink and drive whatever you do.
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: Hawk on May 30, 2021, 09:32:00 PM
Those with no regard for your mental or physical health will cheer you on.  If you want to do idiotic stuff and post about it, I suggest you find another forum. There are forms all over the internet for people like that.  We are not one of them.
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: Winter on May 31, 2021, 01:23:25 AM
Quote from: Kobegianna on May 29, 2021, 05:26:14 PM
Been depressed and at home for 6 months. I'm going out to party and getTing trashed. Might as well try to have fun and forget about this crap

Kobegianna, you are right about one thing, you really should try to have some fun a to forget that crappy disease, at least for a while.
I don't know about that  "getting wasted" line of action, but you should definitely try to move your focus away from your condition as much as you can.
I can suggest plenty of stuff, but I know how tough it is to consider anything when you are depressed and can't look at your own body without feeling shame and anger.
Believe me, I know! I've been there. Sometimes I still is.
But every time I, somehow, manage to free my mind from anguish, even if briefly, I rejoice. I try to focus on work, hobbies, family, reading, art, studies, diet, exercise, even religion.
I became quite religious since this disease appeared in my life. It helps me tremendously to stay sane and see a possible way out, even though only spiritually. If there is no cure in sight, why not asking for a miracle (even if disguised as placebo effect).
But if this is not your thing, you may try any of the other options. One thing I am pretty sure will help you undoublty to feel better; you could practice charity.
Helping others always fills any heart with joy and good energy. You will feel yourself much more worthy and valuable.
Our lives will never be the same as before. We have to find a way to redefine ourselves under the light of this condition. We can metamorphose to strong creatures or we can melancholically decay, entangled to the pale shadows of our former selves. You can choose your path. All of them are definitely going to be full of suffering and struggle. But at least, at one of them you are not absolutely sure that you will find only grief and sorrow.
God bless
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: RichardWilson99 on May 31, 2021, 04:19:56 AM
I meant to cheer you on in the sense of going out and enjoying life.  I did not mean to push you towards getting drunk in a lonesome setting--please don't do that. My mistake if I misread what you meant Kobegianna. He did he's going to a party after 6 months, I wanted to encourage that!
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: Kobegianna on May 31, 2021, 10:12:12 PM
Thanks Richard. That's how I took it. I know you didn't mean to encouraging just getting mindlessly wasted. I went out and tried to get my mind off things. Kind of worked kind of didnt. But hey life goes on. To be honest I need to not check this forum 24/7 but I can't help myself. 😂😂
Title: Re: I’m drinking alcohol and going to go party
Post by: Hawk on June 01, 2021, 12:12:56 AM
Quote from: Kobegianna on May 31, 2021, 10:12:12 PM
To be honest, I need to not check this forum 24/7 but I can't help myself. 😂😂 

Yes, you can.  Not only can you, but you must learn to get your mind off of this without alcohol, or you will remain miserable.

It is obvious by your actions and your posts that you have totally disregarded the very things that really would help you.  They are found in the resources at the top of the page, but you have totally disregarded them as being of little value and not even worth a fair try.  https://www.peyroniesforum.net/index.php/topic,13846.0.html