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Title: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: orriw on April 05, 2021, 04:33:05 PM
Right now i am trying to avoid masturbation and ejaculating to see how and if it will help my peyronies, because almost 3 years in i still feel like i am in the acute phase due to pain and thought maybe some prolonged break will help. I do this for 3 weeks now and notice some improvements in pain. Not masturbating is easy for me if i dont watch any porn, or have sexual thoughts.
However i am also dating a girl right now and i am the kind of guy to get an errection fairly easy. If we lay on the bed for half an hour and kiss i usually have an errection for all this time.... resulting in blue balls (Pain) later due to not ejaculating. The pain makes me think about masturbating to release it, however i dont want to destroy my progress. Any other idea  or helpful method to ease the pain (other than taking pills) ?
Title: Re: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: Anton36 on April 05, 2021, 08:12:22 PM
Why do not you think F~@< her instead of masturbation?
Title: Re: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: Hawk on April 05, 2021, 08:59:54 PM
I could not have laid on a bed and kissed a woman for an hour without an hour-long erection in my 50's.  The only reason I could after that was that I had ED from nerve damage during surgery.

It is hard to believe your question was even serious. My idea is to stop teasing yourself with foreplay if you do not want to orgasm.  Make up your mind and choose one.

1. Have foreplay followed by a throbbing erection and have an orgasm
2. Stop the foreplay.

Title: Re: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: Mikel7 on April 06, 2021, 07:54:34 AM
We go to the candy store to buy something sweet to eat  :')  ..............  Stop going to the candy store !
Title: Re: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: Cabby on April 06, 2021, 10:06:59 AM
Problem is if you wait to long and avoid sex she may get bored and leave. Masturbation for me can cause pain but sex with a hard erection and a turned on lady does not .
Title: Re: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: Nolte94 on April 07, 2021, 07:06:41 AM
Your decision. I prefer having sex.
Title: Re: Stopping Blue balls without ejaculating?
Post by: Mikel7 on April 07, 2021, 07:43:26 AM
Orgasm by any other name would be relief.