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Title: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: cheeznips on September 15, 2018, 04:13:14 AM
Anyone have social anxiety?
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: NeoV on September 15, 2018, 05:13:52 AM
Probably the vast majority of us :) that's why I'm going out to talk to women now (I do everyday). Meditation and approaching women or mixed sets is a must. Gotta learn to lead and own the situation no matter the obstacles. You have to practice man.
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: Hontas on December 19, 2018, 06:56:14 PM
Lol, i am really honest and i literally have 0 social anxiety. I dont care for one bit now, i have a good social circle and everything i just keep my private life private and out of my social circle. At least i fixed my anxiety issues
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: Bubba dawg on December 20, 2018, 06:55:01 AM
I never had social anxiety.  I had a fear of rejection by women.  Then I realized it was a numbers game. If I came on to 5 or 10 women in a night club I would get at least one in bed. I dont mean being crude. I mean just asking them to dance or buy them a drink. I ended up sleeping with over 100 in many years. Having a few beers doesnt hurt. Not getting sloppy drunk. Dress nice.  Clean cut . Act confident. No woman wants to hear your sad story or problems. They also want to be treated with respect. Dont be al Bundy lol
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: Hawk on December 20, 2018, 10:25:47 AM
Someone that was a great pianist once told me (when I was complaining about a lack of talent and wishing I could play an instrument) "Anything worth being good at is worth doing poorly for a while".  If we do that which is difficult, that thing becomes less and less difficult.
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: Hontas on December 20, 2018, 06:00:35 PM
Social anxiety is a joke ;D just go humiliate yourself if you have it lol.I bet you will have more sex like that
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: suicidecomingsoon on December 20, 2018, 06:03:05 PM
I left society, I prefer loneliness until something can cure me if possible, otherwise ..
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: RachelThorpe on February 14, 2019, 06:45:58 AM
I used to be extremely anxious of being judged by others. I used to be very self-conscious in everyday social situations. I did not like meeting new people. I took professional help, consulted a therapist over and over again. Gradually, what I found is communication is the key to curb social anxiety. Talk therapy does wonder.
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: popopo on February 14, 2019, 12:00:11 PM
I was a shy kid. Then got better, then got peyronies and since then got way worse. I can kind of force trough my anxiety and fake smile all day, I just don't want to. If necessary I can be very outgoing and social, but most days I'm just too depressed to surpress my true feelings. It's not really fear or anything, it's just that to me meeting women is useless now and in a group of guys I'll just always feel the lesser male and get reminded because of sex stories and all of that so I just avoid most people. I can only really connect to other broken people, but even they start to bore me in the end because deep down I just want the same thing as "suicidecomingsoon". Still hope the day I can have sex again will be sooner rather than later. I'm pretty sure I can live with my mistakes and shortcoming when I'm no longer "impotent". Even the word just makes me cringe, so "acceptance" isn't an option. If I accept being impotent I also accept that I no longer want to be amongst other people who DO have sex.
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: Larry on August 07, 2019, 04:37:05 PM
Are you gay, straight or bi? :)

Where are you from? :)
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: henny on April 05, 2021, 12:49:09 AM
Quote from: cheeznips on September 15, 2018, 04:13:14 AM
Anyone have social anxiety?

Yes!!!!! Especially with the condition I have, I am so afraid and constantly worrying that I am not included or rather isolated to the mainstream.
But with this site, I was able to realize, I am not alone in this battle.
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: justcause91 on April 05, 2021, 05:42:15 AM
practice no fap and keep excercising bro.

The more you take care of yourself the more people start loving you
Title: Re: Anyone have social anxiety?
Post by: Hawk on April 05, 2021, 07:06:29 AM
Henny, we know nothing about you.  Go to the introduction board and ------->https://www.peyroniesforum.net/index.php/board,46.0.html   then click on New Topic and tell us about you and your condition.  We would like to get to know you and how we can help.