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Title: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: asiasi on November 07, 2020, 09:00:47 AM
26 days passed since nesbit surgery.
The doctor told me 4 weeks not to have sexual intercourse.

Am I allowed to masturbate now?

While having a full erection, I feel the Stitches that are in the middle.
The exposed Stitches area is completely Recovered.
Is it okay? Feel the Stitches inside?
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: thecrookedone on November 08, 2020, 02:00:30 PM
Check with your surgeon. I would wait until 6-8 weeks , the standard waiting time in india is 12 weeks. But everyone has different healing time and if you heal early your surgeon will approve
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: peyroniesurprise on November 13, 2020, 09:59:14 AM
you should not masturbate at all because it is unhealthy.

if you really feel you have to do something, get a realistic fleshlight and thrust into it
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: TonySa on November 13, 2020, 11:31:42 AM
Unhealthy?  What are you taking about-using the fleshlight is also a  form of masturbation. 
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: peyroniesurprise on November 13, 2020, 11:55:14 AM
Well yes but actually no, the two are very different.

Thrusting into a realistic fleshlight (not the crazy texture ones) is as close as sex you can get. It actually feels closer to real sex than real sex with a condom does.

Jerking off is as completely opposed to sex as you can get because you're literally touching, fondling, stroking a penis to get aroused, stay aroused and ejaculate. I frequently compare it to homosexual sex.

But other than that, functionally speaking, the pressure on your penis when you grip it with your hand is very different and harmful than the pressure you get from a fleshlight. It's really about pounds/square inch, think a woman walking on a surface with high heels vs barefoot.
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: TonySa on November 13, 2020, 07:20:19 PM
Well, first of all you're assuming sex is only w a woman.  And no, other than you, no rational person thinks masturbation  is the same as gay sex.  btw, the term "homosexual" is derogative-especially in the context you are providing...that masturbation is like gay sex and therefore avoid...WOW!
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: peyroniesurprise on November 14, 2020, 01:17:44 PM
Quote from: TonySa on November 13, 2020, 07:20:19 PM
Well, first of all you're assuming sex is only w a woman.  And no, other than you, no rational person thinks masturbation  is the same as gay sex.  btw, the term "homosexual" is derogative-especially in the context you are providing...that masturbation is like gay sex and therefore avoid...WOW!

You're free to disagree, the point about grip is irrefutable. You will only get a normal, natural and healthy grip with a silicone vagina. Hand is too much and uneven pressure.
Title: Re: Masturbation after surgery
Post by: justflyawaynow on December 01, 2020, 03:27:04 AM
Quote from: asiasi on November 07, 2020, 09:00:47 AM
26 days passed since nesbit surgery.
The doctor told me 4 weeks not to have sexual intercourse.

Am I allowed to masturbate now?

While having a full erection, I feel the Stitches that are in the middle.
The exposed Stitches area is completely Recovered.
Is it okay? Feel the Stitches inside?

Don't do it!

I made the mistake of doing it after a few weeks because I couldn't stand it any longer and it hurt really bad. I think I popped a Suture as well but never told the dr. So now after a few years I have a slight curve to the right that I feel is likely a missing suture. Just wait it out. I also had frequent painful errections while recovering and figured masturbation would fix that. Only ice  packs and cold showers helped.