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Fubar Penis

[Surely you remember that we don't allow multiple posts. I am sorry for what you are going through but you posted the same post 4 times.]

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Paolo

Fubar Penis, you deserve better than this!
Your wife sounds a very cold person, doesn't understand how emasculated Peyronie's makes us men feel  :'(

I think your son will at some point will contact you, I hope so and believe that will happen.

Suicide is absolutely not the answer, see your Doctor and get some temporary meds for stress and anxiety, once you are feeling better you will see things differently (I hope).

You must understand that you are a worthy person, yes you are, don't let negative thoughts drown you out in to a spiral of negativity. Don't apologize for being away for so long, stop right there.

Do you have a hobby that you used to enjoy at a younger age that you could re-visit?

For me the pain of Peyronie's was the most distressing symptom of this condition, thankfully I don't have pain anymore and am stable.

I always found relief from a hot water bottle along with castor oil for pain along with the usual Acetyl L-Carnitine supplement.

Keep posting as that will help you not feeling isolated with this  :)
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.

popopo

Hey man, I feel very sorry for you. I know what you feel and so do a lot of others. I too am in a situation where doctors say anythhing ranging from "I feel a little scar tissue, but no problem." Or "there is nothing wrong at all". I lost about an inch in lenght, still painfull sometimes and zthe shape really changed (dent/hourglass-like deformity). Luckily I have people who believe me and understand why I feel so frustrated around me. I would advice you to seek a therapist and if he even mentions you imagining things just leave.. If you really feel this, I'm sure it's true. I cannot imagine how psychologically skewed you need to be to imagine the exact symptoms of peyronies. I in fact have a BDD diagnosis and it haunts me every doctors visit because it's in every medical report. Don't accept somethng like that, these people are supposed to help you not make you feel misunderstood. The reaction of your wife might be cold, but on the other hand it means that maybe she didn't care about thr actual problem, but the way it affects you psychologically. Believe me, for some reason women just CAN't seem to reall LOOK in detail at a penis like you can with yourself. With size it's the same thing.. all they see is "big, small, average, hard and soft". But you feel every inch you lose, I know that. Where others might see a small dent, it feels like a part of you dici missing, but people dont get that. If your wife comes around try explaing, but if dhe doesnt get it it's not your fault. We're just im a real crappy  situation, all of us, and we gotta pull trough this. One positive thing is thst we live in a time where sex is anopen topic, transgenders want to be able to grow a penis too, people wanna look good and are more superficial anyway. All of this contributes to maybe finding a cure more easily or at least makeing it more of a priority.
Age: 25
Date of onset: 17
Symptoms: sharp pains, numbness, change in shape/size, hourglassing and discolaration from jelqing/VED usage as a teen. Diagnosed with a venous leak and possible scarring.
Treatments tried: cialis, pentox and VED didnt help

Fubar Penis

Thanks for reaching out! I think we weren't such a shallow society as a whole, it would make this condition a little more liveable. I ordered a traction device that I lost when my wife left me. Thought I would try it again. I have a VED too. I forgot everything about use though. Any tips? Or do I need to post in those categories? I definitely don't want to cause more damage. I can also talk via phone if anyone feels comfortable to do so.  

Paolo

Hi Fubar, I have no experience of either traction nor VED, having said that my only advice would be to warm up beforehand with a warm/hot towel and don't continue if you have the slightest of pain, and take both slowly

Good luck to you sincerely  :)
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.