Hi Jim,
It sounds as if there are multiple issues.The prostate is responsible for producing the milky substance for ejaculation. If this is painful, then it might be prostatitis. Any time you see, itis, it means
inflammation. Castor oil can be anti-inflammatory, however, it would be difficult to get it on the prostate. There are a few oral herbal anti-inflammatories that work quite well. One is Boswellia or the extract. The extract is more concentrated with the resin, but lacks the synergistics of the herb to let it work comprehensively. I have used both, and not noticed any difference. Usually the extract will also have some other type of anti-inflammatory herb or substance to help make it more comprehensive.
There are also spices that work quite well as anti-inflammatories. Ginger, Curcumin or Turmeric, and tart cherries.
Try to avoid gluten's, which are highly inflammatory, and found in certain grains, such as wheat and barley.
It sounds as if there is contraction of the blood vessel, the one that is slow to drain, which may be also caused by
plaque either in the vessel or surrounding it, causing it to squeeze the vessel.
You are probably doing good with the
DMSO, aloe vera and castor oil. Be careful with doing this though, make sure
DMSO and aloe vera and castor oil are PURE, with no synthetics added. Make sure your hands are CLEAN, because
DMSO will absorb anything into your body. You can make a pack with the ingredients. Use a clean 100% cotton pad, add very warm, not hot,
DMSO, castor oil and aloe vera to the pad, and wrap it around the affected areas. You can use a heat pad also, to help keep it warm. The longer you can keep it on the better. You can loosely tie a plastic bag around it to keep from staining other areas.
On my forum, I mentioned I used a Sonic, not electric, tooth brush- flat side, not brush side, to massage the
plaque and scar tissue, and saw almost immediate results.
Plaque/scar tissue will cause the tissues to bind or draw together, which then causes the penis to go more erect or bend abnormally. Once this
plaque and/or scar tissue is dissolved or broken up, which I believe the Sonic vibrations allow to happen, the penis will go back to normal.
Let me know how this works out for you.