New member whose husband has had petrone for 13 years

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Pmargal

Hi. My name is Patty. My husband has oeyrones. It's been 13 years. I'm living in a sexless marriage. I am very frustrated. Any time I bring up sex my husband gets angry and crazy. I have kids so don't want to divorce but this is so unfair. I hate how in public he holds my hand and on fb he looks like a model husband always with our picture as a couple on his profile picture. We are living a lie. I even wonder, is he gay? I'm sick of it. He refuses counselinh, both indivual for himself or as a couple. I've attempted to be with him...he never innitiates any intimacy. He refuses to see the urologist, hasn't gone in at least 3 years. Help me please

itsme

Hi Patty. My grandpa, his brother, sun n my cousin has it. Everybody has a normal life n Im starting to date. If the problem is really about that. Talk to him to see Egydio in Brazil. He is the best doc in the world n if u type egydio surgery u ll see some testimonials. If the surgery is really needed he is the who god operates through. N dollar nowadays is 4 reals. W ten thousand dollars u should solve the problem.

Stabler

Hi Patty,

Has he been to a urologist that specializes in Peyronies disease?, has he had treatment of any kind?

Stabler67
Moderator since 2015- Missouri- I work in the medical field and have strong knowledge of insurance and how to obtain coverage for medication and other treatments. Being a woman I do not have Peyronies but you can ask me anything. I am happy to help.

Jonbinspain

Patty;
I do feel for you. As a guy I know that this is something that no man wants, or wants to admit to sometimes - even to themselves! It emasculates you!

However, your husband needs to face reality. This is not going to go away on its own. He needs to man up and get himself to a competent urologist and get a prognosis as to where he's at with this disease. You know how to handle your husband better than we do, but he needs to understand that he has your support in getting this sorted out.

If he continues to refuse to do nothing, then I'm afraid you have some hard choices to make!  

gringoviajero

Patty - JonBinSpain is right on the money.  Your hubby's first problem is psychological.  Dealing with someone with a psychological issue is like dealing with an alcoholic; you can't force them; they have to want to face it.  Your husband is very, very lucky to have a wife like you.  You can read on this forum of some guys who have lost relationships because of this disease.  We do know that half of all men diagnosed with Peyronies Disease go on to receive treatment for clinical depression; that's documented.  But beyond that – suicides, broken marriages – we don't know.

Most men would consider themselves blessed to have a loving and supportive wife like you.  You owe it to yourself and to your children to do what's necessary to protect youself and those kids.

QuackAttack

Patty,

Just to reiterate what the others are saying. This disease, I would say condition because it isn't going to kill you, messes guys up in the head.  There are two things that make a man a man. First, is his penis. If you have a boy, think back to when he was young and how often he examined it. Second, any real man wants to be able to support his family. If either of those two things are impacted they will feel emasculated.  I told my wife the other night that she can't truly understand what is going on with me and why I am willing to pop as many supplements as I can, use traction devices, etc to the greatest extent possible before I would ever consider a surgical option.  Being a nurse practitioner, my wife is all about the mainstream medical model and slicing and dicing to her isn't a big deal, but to me the complications of complete ED from that is more than I am willing to stomach until I have gone through every possible alternative option. The next morning my wife said to me that I was right she can't completely understand. She has been very supportive.  The other thing that you have to keep in mind is your husband may have thoughts of you leaving him. In his head, he's already told himself that I am screwed if she leaves me.

Stabler

Hello Patty,

I have been reading the responses from the gentlemen in the forum, they are telling you the truth about how your husband may be feeling. Peyronies is a disease that first strikes physically and then mentally. While there are treatments that can help, your husband will need to be willing to try them. As said.. counseling can and really should be done by your husband if he is willing. He may want to start by visiting the forum and simply reading the stories of the men here, just as a guest. At least then he could see how others are handling it, he can see what treatments are available to him, our list of specialist that was included in my message to you would help him to find a urologist that does specialize in Peyronies.

But... as the gentlemen have said, it will have to be him that decides to seek help. Your support of him is crucial and even though you may not realize it, I am sure that he is great full for it. You will also need support, we can help with that too. So make sure to call on us. I can be reached anytime by email and when I say anytime, I mean that.

Stabler67
Moderator since 2015- Missouri- I work in the medical field and have strong knowledge of insurance and how to obtain coverage for medication and other treatments. Being a woman I do not have Peyronies but you can ask me anything. I am happy to help.

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