Looking for feedback on freplay from people with a Penile Prosthesis

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Funny9097

I am a 29 year old male who has severe erectile dysfunction. I have had it for roughly 10 years now (I have 2 posts on this website).

I have 2 questions -

1- Before I developed quite severe ED I remember feeling like my private part 'was there' when it was flaccid and had some blood flow in it. I felt a strong drive to approach women and initiate sex. How does your private part feel when it's flaccid with the prosthetic implant? By having a flaccid private part that has some 'fluid' does your penis feel 'alive' when your walking around town and see attractive women, etc.? (or let's just say your wife to be appropriate as most people are older family men and will have to exercise restraint if they are good people / that's probably more appropriate!)

2- When you inflate your penis do you then feel quite horny? (say if you have 'a loaded gun' / have built up your sperm over a couple days). Example - With an 'inflated' / 'erect' prosthetic penis once inflated do you feel like you just need urge to 'jump on your lady' so to speak? .. or will you have a casual non foreplay conversation with her about how it's time to have sex and once 'inside' you will both have a great time?


I have been looking on the forums quite a bit and my main concern with a prosthesis is with regards to foreplay - In my past relationships (especially when healthy) I found that it was thanks to my sex drive and the way I touched my woman and kissed her that typically initiated sex. Say when I walked up behind her while cooking, etc. When healthy I was a bit of a nympho which might have spurred my condition / damaging my private part in the first place. My desire for sex would essentially 'turn her on'. Do you get this desire and the magic ability back with a penile prosthesis (say when it's inflated). I have not found too much on the subject but these 2 questions are really geared towards shedding some light on that/foreplay. How do you initiated sex? How is the physical intimacy prior to intercourse? Can people describe their experiences a little in this regard?

.. at my age this might guide my decision as to whether I just rely on loading myself up with Cialis, etc. as my condition gradually erodes or try to attack the organic root causes (only non 'band-aid' solution I have found so far is the prosthesis route and I'm 29 and don't want to wait forever.. this condition has truly detiriorated my relationships/social life in every way and I'd like to be normal enough to consider having a family, etc. one day). While not perfect it would be psychologically beneficial to me if my condition was constant/stable in a relationship.

Thanks so much for any feedback guys!

Funny9097

Old Man

Age 92. Peyronies Disease at age 24, Peyronies Disease after
stage four radical prostatectomy in 1995, Heart surgery 2004 with three bypasses/three stents.
Three more stents in 2016. Hiatal hernia surgery 2017 with 1/3 stomach reduction. Many other surgeries too.

Funny9097

Thanks Old Man - I will be sure to reach out to this individual for feedback.

If other people can chime in about their experiences please do so!

Best to all,

Funny9097

I feel that a lot of members who are considering this radical approach in attacking the organic cause of their ED would be very interested in the questions (though somewhat explicit) I have posted below. From my experience when I have/was healthy foreplay is 95% of the experience with a woman. It really surprises me that it has been discussed in very little detail on the forums. Please chime in if you have any insights guys!

Thanks so much!
Funny9097

james1947

Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum