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emasculated

I would first deal with this issue (psychologically / physically) before approaching the whole relationship construction site in your life. It's just too much to deal with both issues right now. Women are complicated, difficult and strange creatures. I know many here are happily married but I'm not even sure I envy them that much. Sure it's good to have some support. But women have these all-encompassing needs and desires. Yet they are not ever straightforward and honest about anything ever. You can't count on women's opinion on anything. They are not really conscious of what they actually want most of the time. She says one thing, thinks another and really wants a third. The problem with Peyronies is not that you can't please a woman. That's impossible anyway, even with 5 fully functioning dicks you couldn't. No one can ever please a woman. A woman is never truly happy with anything. They always want more more MORE. The problem is that you are unhappy because of the lack of pleasure in your life and intimacy. When I was frustrated at around 20, before I had the courage to approach women I would simply go to prostitutes. And you might consider that. You're deficiencies are no problem there whatsoever. And there is no shame in it whatsoever either. But that only as an aside. The thing about having no relationship can actually be a blessing. You miss out on that bad aspect of having a dick, namely it leading you into this trap. How many guys have failed to follow their dream and talents just because they were trying to do the impossible, namely please a certain female, cater to her all-encompassing never ending needs and being drowned in her endless nagging?
So deal with this issue because it bothers you, but at the same time concentrate on the stuff in life which you can actually do something about. Namely career, developing your talents etc.. Developing friendships! Side benefit being that you earn a lot of money. Which could be good for treatments.  
"Without health life is not life; it is only a state of languor and suffering - an image of death."

LWillisjr

Quote from: emasculated on March 02, 2014, 06:26:22 AM

Yet they are not ever straightforward and honest about anything ever. You can't count on women's opinion on anything. They are not really conscious of what they actually want most of the time. She says one thing, thinks another and really wants a third. The problem with Peyronies is not that you can't please a woman. That's impossible anyway, even with 5 fully functioning dicks you couldn't. No one can ever please a woman. A woman is never truly happy with anything. They always want more more MORE.

EM,
I'm amazed at some of your posts. You push and push for data and ask others to speak using facts. And then you make a post based on your opinion. To make such a statement about women is degrading and I apologize to all our female forum members. Women are complicated, but not anymore then men are. You think women can't communicate their desires and men can??. Women are never happy and men are??. I am sorry if this is based on your experiences with women so far. We are all complicated individuals, and we all 'speak' a slightly different language. I couldn't let this post go by without responding. And if it turns into a debate I will need to split it off as its own topic so we don't hijack the original intent of this one.
Developed peyronies 2007 - 70 degree dorsal curve
Traction/MEDs/Injections/Surgery 2008 16 years Peyronies free now
My History

james1947

First I would like to add my apology to LWillisjr apology to our female forum members for the quoted part by LWillisjr from emasculated post.
What I would like to add to the conversation is that I had relations with a few woman during my life. I like woman companion, many times I like they advice's based on intuition or on different way of assessing situations. I agree that sometimes they think different than man, but not in the negative way.
Got to conclusion that I will never fully understand woman, but still want they companion and advice's. :)

I am splitting the subject to a new topic

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum

emasculated

Oh great. This was actually meant as a comment to DBNO. Probably should have made into a PM then. No interest in a debate on this subject at all. I guess by now he has read it, so might as well delete the thread.
"Without health life is not life; it is only a state of languor and suffering - an image of death."

NeoV

I guess I don`t really agree with your sentiment that women are different than men, or that they are complex any more than men are. Though, I completely sympathize with what your saying.

As many of you know, I went through relationship hell moving to Tokyo and giving away everything I had to a psychopath here.
My Peyronie's made things so much worse, and the girl ended up hitting me and said things aimed to crush my sexuality that I will refrain from posting here on the forums. I finally lost everything, and it set me free in a sense.

Not many men get the opportunity to have a chance at their dream girl. The perfect 10, or maybe just the one that fits your archetype to a T. For those of us who do get this chance, we fight for it with everything we have until we hit rock bottom and lose everything, be it money, your sexuality, identity, all those things you sacrifice.

What happens afterward is the same for almost all of us, we try out other women, none of who satisfy us, and we discover that we are no different than the girl who ruined us.

My Peyronie's and my relationships with women has been the focus of my life forever, loving and giving to women has been my only reason for living since I was a child. My ultra care giving mom turned me into this. Finally I'm learning a bit of what your proposing, that, by focusing on other things we actually secure the things we were so desperately trying to preserve.

I no longer blame women. I see them clearly, and I see them within myself.

There is only one tragedy in life, the being in between. Being unable to or refusing to chase your utmost desires, and never becoming truly free.
Force yourself to talk to women, force yourself to go to the gym. Sleep with evil women if you have to.
Get it all out of your system, lose your selfishness and your Peyronie's may even disappear with it.

-V

james1947

I know emasculated you meant just to answer to DBNO, but I think this topic is a very useful one in the subject of "Psychological Component - Coping with Peyronies Disease" :)

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum