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steamer

the following is an excerpt from a woman who replied to me when i was having a pain day and feeling less of a man. her words were just what i needed to help me with this garbage we've all had thrown at us. i hope you find it inspiring as i have................

Unfortunately, that's all we really can do at this point... wait.

A penis does NOT make a man.  Women can tell you, there are differences
between a boy, a 'guy', a man, and a jerk... regardless of age.  A 50 year
old can still be a boy... or a jerk.  Age, or stage in life, has nothing to
do with it.  It's what's in a man's heart and actions that make him a man.
It's the way he treats the people around him and the confidence he has in
himself and his ability to love and care for his family and friends.

There are other ways to physically give your affection, as you well know.
My brother had a similar problem for many years where he had an inability to
hold an erection... he had a leak!... but that didn't stop him from having,
and satisfying, a girlfriend who was more than 20 years his junior!  I had
always considered my brother a "man's man!"  His confidence and surety
preceded everything else and left no doubt in people's minds... especially
women's!

So do what you need to do to get as healthy as possible.  Do what you need
to do to correct this issue as much as possible.  Have fun discovering and
creating new ways to satisfy each other.  The most simple, every day actions
can become sensual and sexual if you put your mind there.  This is an
opportunity to rediscover each other on a higher emotional level.

That being said... suck it up and get on with it!


james1947

What can I say? Everything she told you is 100% right :)
Unfortunately, you need two people to dance tango (a say in some Latin languages).
I mean, the other side, your wife or girlfriend should see the things as this woman who gave you the psychological and moral help. :)
Otherwise, it can turn out ugly :(

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum