How I'm learning to embrace my curve!

[Tim_]

Hi all,
So I have a congenital curvature, pretty curved though with no problems for ejaculation, and since I started to get freaked out about it not too long ago and looked at the posts here, I've really learned that the curve is not something I should freak about at all, hell, I should be happy!

Heres my thoughts on it: First off, masterbation. With an essentially perfectly straight penis, all that ejaculate is going straight up....and right back down on your crotch. crap, that sounds disgusting to me and im sure to you guys too! I'm happy I lean right, Theres no sense of a misfire thats going to 'splash down' on myself, i know the direction its going in and I dont have to fear my lap is really going to be disgustingly covered in stuff I'd rather not be on there. So lets see: Curvature 1, Straight penis 0

Blowjobs (Oral sex) performed by a partner. Well, I'm straight so I will be using the word girl in this, but if you're gay then I'm sure you'll still understand what I'm talking about. So while I still haven't gotten that first BJ yet, lets just say I'm pretty sure its happening quite soon, I thought of a reason that curve wins again. Worried that your girl might gag on your member or that if you climax and pull out too late you might finish on her? I'm not! Thanks to the curve, the second its out of her mouth its going straight in the direction i will be sure to have cleared of all things that could get messy, so maybe ill just be putting a towel on there. Also, because its curved, theres more surface area in a shorter distance so the chance of gagging is significantly reduced. Curve 2, Straight 0. I'm liking the odds.

Last but not least, certainly not least, sex. Man, my first time is going to be the most memorable thing in my entire life because of how I figure its going to go down. Depending on if its just sex or some 'foreplay' involved, she might look and say well thats a bit curved isnt it. I guess if she says that shes seen a few before and thats when I get to give a 'demonstration' of why curved makes her feel so much better. I will skip the details but you can imagine something like that will end with 2 satisfied faces. I give the final count as Curvature 3, Straight 0.

The most important thing for me and I hope for you guys too is to keep an optimistic attitude towards all this. I got sad one night about my curve, and nearly thought i was depressed for a few days after. I stopped myself from that thought, and realized that one bad thought feeds the others. Its a terrible cycle that once you break, is much easier to accept and get through. Keep a positive attitude and realize its not the end of the world, no matter what situation you're in.

[james1947]

I can just say that your post is very positive, keep going like that
Wish you no. 2&3 will come out as you are expecting.
Update us when you have the results  

James

[Tim_]

I haven't forgotten about this website, I'm still just waiting for more things to reply back with

[Lostatsea]

Hey man, nice to hear your positivity!

It's all subjective based on the nature of your curve. In my situation, lumbered with a 60 degree upwards penis, I didn't see much choice other than to opt for corrective surgery.

And after months of inital set backs, extensive research and the surgery itself I can honestly say it was the best decision I could have made.

But it's not a one size fits fix - perhaps with a less extreme curve I could have also shared in your embracement of its certain advantages.

It's clear that experiences with Congenital Curvature can be both shared and sharply contrasting. At the end of the day, it can only come down to whatever works best for you (and your partner ). Surgery is a risk you should avoid taking until all other avenues are explored, which with CC basically boils down to "does it adversely affect my sexual health/life?"

Take it easy!

[jrknight]

Good for you, man. It took me a while to come to terms with it.

It really gives you a sense of acceptance and maturity. You are probably quite young and it can only be a good thing that you can embrace it and don't let yourself become jaded by the anxiety.

Enjoy your experiences, my first blowjob was quite something, a real up and down experience. Ah, see what I did there. In all seriousness you will have no problems functioning sexually.

Jon