Is anyone having or had casual sex with Peyronies Disease? Any advice?

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ohnoohno

First of all, not like I'm going around getting ladies every night...

But I'm in my late twenties and travelling around a lot, with my friends too (who I haven't told about Peyronies Disease) and they're all interested in getting some lady friends and stuff... I would be more inclined too if my penis was normal...

Anyway, any advice on this? Do you do it? Did you do it? How'd it work?

I haven't tried so I guess I don't know what to expect but in the past I'd be able to have some crazy good nights and be able to go multiple times but now my little broken sausage might not be able to hack it! lol
29 y/o diagnosed 13 Jun 22.

went from a slight 30dg bend at glans to whole thing being deformed/loss of length over a year.

trying to find a way out of this all

redemption

hey bro i understand how tough this is... here is my experience

i've had a few 1 or 2 night stands since my injury

i had difficulty achieving anything consistent because of my insecurities

also, it was very difficult to climax from piv, maybe because i turned to porn and wanking it over the years

next time i have sex ill be abstained from porn and wanking and wearing a penis ring to help keep my erection and increase sensitivity (as long as the uro says it's not gonna do damage)
29. Penile fracture 9 years ago (untreated)
Hard flaccid, ED, limited blood flow to glans
Jesus is restoring my pride

Sonic

Quote from: redemption on February 07, 2023, 07:39:10 AMalso, it was very difficult to climax from piv, maybe because i turned to porn and wanking it over the years

next time i have sex ill be abstained from porn and wanking and wearing a penis ring to help keep my erection and increase sensitivity (as long as the uro says it's not gonna do damage)

I hope your journey of quitting porn may be succesful and permanent. I am on this road myself now. This is something I honestly believe every man in the world needs to do. I have relapsed a million times but always get back on the train but this time I have a whole other feeling about the issue.

Years of consuming it, especially on record levels now in my adulthood since Peyronies have made it so that I can physically feel the impacts now. I believe at least 50% of my erectile issues stems from porn. I am running out of time. If I do not quit permanently I fear I might be stuck in this position for the rest of my life.

Everytime one relapses you delay the healing and recovery of the brain. I get almost zero arousal from anything. 2 months ago I was browsning the reddit section of nude fit girls and had zero reaction felt literally nothing, 4 years ago it would have made me rock hard.

I have completely come off topic now but I feel it's a very important subject. Long time porn consumption is being proven more each year from studies to cause erectile issues due to over stimulation and the fact that you are shooting your dopamine levels up to the roof essentialy collapsing your entire system and it's reaction to dopamine.

Admitting it to other people online is helping me. It is a very tough journey but I hope I can reach my goals. The top of the porn free mountain.
30 years. Sudden rightwards curve detected in June 2020
Narrowing on right side and about a 20° curve to the right.
ED + instability due to narrowing.

Trapper

I tried having casual sex a couple weeks ago because my erections were getting better and it made my condition worse perhaps due to my erection not being firm enough. The woman seemed to enjoy it despite inquiring as to why I kept losing my erection. You may think differently than me but personally I see no point in pursuing romantic relationships or casual sex if your dick is broken. I believe it is better to be sure it is fixed first.

Should you chose to engage in these casual sexual encounters as I did I would make sure you do so sober with no bonner killing alchohol and well rested. I would also recommend maximum dose viagra (100mg) or cialis (20mg) to aid you in getting the best possible erection. If those don't work than injections.


 
33 years old, symptoms started early 20's but never really bothered me until the last two years
Trimix worked well but caused more scarring. 
Titan 24CM XL+ 1 CM RTE'S Dr. Hakky 4/4/23
Hyaluronic acid penis filler by Dr. Hakky June 2023

Sonic

Sadly I agree fully with trapper here and it's the reason I've been lonely the past year and half (since ED began) I see no point in trying to have sex when you constantly have to think about erections fluctuating and new injuries.

I will not pursuit any relationship/sex until I have restored my erectile function enough for it to be safe for sex. I do not know how long that will take but honestly I don't care.

Everyone is different but I would rather be lonely than have a completely non enjoyable sex life..
30 years. Sudden rightwards curve detected in June 2020
Narrowing on right side and about a 20° curve to the right.
ED + instability due to narrowing.

ohnoohno

Damn I'm sad to see no real positive replies, sorry guys!

I still believe in hope always, I'm really trying to keep a positive attitude on all this cause F letting it defeat me/us. Life is too rare to live and just to be alive is a blessing.

There's people out there in way worse situations who don't even have a dick or legs or arms etc and I know it isn't great to think about but I'm trying to be grateful I can walk, see, talk, make human loving connections/friendships/bonds, chase my dreams! so many things to be grateful for...

I believe that regardless of what happens there is still 100% women/people out there that would understand the situation.

I'm going to be open to anything, maybe not chasing too much and when it comes down to it I'll just be like "hey I actually broke my dick and it's a bit dodgy so we'll see how this goes" and try laugh at it, cause I now do laugh to myself like "jesus this isn't great is it, me and my broken dick" ... and if all fails on the night just find other pleasures to make happen... grateful for HANDS!

I'll most definitely be in here and make a post whenever that time comes and let you know how I get on...

I see lots of mentioning about it being too soft for intercourse but what about masturbation, does it work there? What about getting an implant?





 
29 y/o diagnosed 13 Jun 22.

went from a slight 30dg bend at glans to whole thing being deformed/loss of length over a year.

trying to find a way out of this all

Sonic

Quote from: ohnoohno on February 08, 2023, 06:35:00 AMI still believe in hope always, I'm really trying to keep a positive attitude on all this cause F letting it defeat me/us. Life is too rare to live and just to be alive is a blessing.

There's people out there in way worse situations who don't even have a dick or legs or arms etc and I know it isn't great to think about but I'm trying to be grateful I can walk, see, talk, make human loving connections/friendships/bonds, chase my dreams! so many things to be grateful for...

I believe that regardless of what happens there is still 100% women/people out there that would understand the situation.



Good mindset. I truly wish you the best and hope you one day don't have to worry about any of this. Cheers pal!
30 years. Sudden rightwards curve detected in June 2020
Narrowing on right side and about a 20° curve to the right.
ED + instability due to narrowing.

Trapper

Agree if you want to go for it I think that is the best possible mindset to have.

Do you have a treatment plan for fixing your dick? Sounds like an IPP may be the way to go if pills are not correcting your ED. It could also solve your curve/indent.

 
33 years old, symptoms started early 20's but never really bothered me until the last two years
Trimix worked well but caused more scarring. 
Titan 24CM XL+ 1 CM RTE'S Dr. Hakky 4/4/23
Hyaluronic acid penis filler by Dr. Hakky June 2023

redemption

@sonic - Good bro. I nearly relapsed yesterday when I got my diagnosis. Not gonna lie.

Ironically, the other day I looked at a homemade vid I made with a smoking hot babe several years ago.

I could see my penis buckle where the damage was (she was on top).  Seeing it gave me a strange amount of peace. No longer in denial.

The physical damage is gonna be a challenge for me, so I better do everything in my power to optimize the mental part.
29. Penile fracture 9 years ago (untreated)
Hard flaccid, ED, limited blood flow to glans
Jesus is restoring my pride

Sonic

Quote from: redemption on February 08, 2023, 02:16:53 PM@sonic - Good bro. I nearly relapsed yesterday when I got my diagnosis. Not gonna lie.

Very understandable because getting a diagnose like this puts you in a negative state, ferlings of loneliness and feeling like why did this happen to me? In other words feelings which make you very susceptible to relapse because you wanna get the dopamine hit from porn and escape those feelings.

Stay strong. I hope you don't go back to that filthy BS.
30 years. Sudden rightwards curve detected in June 2020
Narrowing on right side and about a 20° curve to the right.
ED + instability due to narrowing.

ohnoohno

Appreciate you Sonic, I wish the exact same to you and everyone else on this forum... I believe there will be new studies and hopefully cures in future too but yes right now we're all abit in limbo waiting for something / trying our best!

Trapper - My plan currently is I'm taking about 2.5mg of cialis daily and I try do the VED/SomaErect whenever I can, also a COQ10 supplement... I'm not sure what else I should do right now so maybe some new research is in order... I live a healthy lifestyle of clean diet, excercise and stuff so that's also an addition I guess..

So Sonic / Redemption are you saying you're completely cut off from masturbating/porn etc? You think this is best? So still get erect to promote blood flow but dont use it

 
29 y/o diagnosed 13 Jun 22.

went from a slight 30dg bend at glans to whole thing being deformed/loss of length over a year.

trying to find a way out of this all

Sonic

Quote from: ohnoohno on February 08, 2023, 10:33:40 PMSo Sonic / Redemption are you saying you're completely cut off from masturbating/porn etc? You think this is best? So still get erect to promote blood flow but dont use it

What I am doing right now is I basically only jack off when I am feeling really horny which isn't often due to depressed and anxious state. But naturally that is the only way I get the firmest erections.

I am indeed on the road of quitting porn completely and that decision has nothing to do with my Peyronies moreso due to the fact that my brain needs to heal. My arousal levels have been shattered due to porn. Ironically enough my porn consumption was at it's all time high during my adult years after I got this disease. I just wanted to escape thinking about it all the time and used porn as an escape.

It has damaged my brain to the point where I am now feeling physical negative effects from it.

I hope in one year I can bump this post and say I am a year free.
30 years. Sudden rightwards curve detected in June 2020
Narrowing on right side and about a 20° curve to the right.
ED + instability due to narrowing.

redemption

^ pretty much same

eliminating masturbation will help arousal and performance if i do have sex

quitting porn is necessary to heal my brain

the goal is to be psychologically healthy and not thirsty for validation from women
29. Penile fracture 9 years ago (untreated)
Hard flaccid, ED, limited blood flow to glans
Jesus is restoring my pride