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GaussRifle

I had gotten into the zone of just being happy with matches on tinder as self validation and talking to women without actually meeting them. This past weekend, I got drunk just a bit and actually asked out a tinder date for Sunday. We went out, had fun talking, seeing sunsets on lake. She casually mentioned that she dates people who are good in bed. I'm crap scared now. I have never been able to actually test out my peyronies dick on any girl. Towards the end of the date, she was dropping hints that she wanted to F~@< me... I played as if I didn't understood, because I wasn't mentally prepared to F~@< on first date.

Should I tell her I'd love to only be friends and hang out ? I dont want to be embarrassed with my peyronies penis if I agree to have sex with her. I don't want to be made fun of and ashamed of my dick and why it so thin. (I lost girth due to peyronies).

I live a very lonely life and I had good fun and fenale company after ages just being a little playful and flirtatious after years. Now I dont want this experience to turn bad and haunt me if she sees my penis as less girthy or of it doesn't work in bed.

Other part of me tells me, I really need and deserve sex myself... I really want to have sex, I'm just being scared of being made off and losing even the friendship I have.

Please advice. Thanks



26 year old
45-50 degree downward curve with an indentation on one side when erect.
Using RestoreX and Xiaflex injections
Taking coq10 with daily Cialis 5mg.

chrisaaa7

Hey man, nothing wrong with wanting to go out with girls, everyone desrves some fun. However,
I don't think tinder is the right thing to do. I think you need to really find someone to be in a relationship with that cares about you and loves you. First of all this will help the lonely problem. Also, it will be less pressure because now you're having sex with someone you like/love rather than just a girl on tinder looking to have sex. If you're in the right relationship you won't be judged , they will give you confidence, and the pressure will be dropped from your shoulders. That is just my advice, obviously you can make whatever choice is best for you.

You can always direct message me for support  
M 21 Los Angeles

Saw Urologist at USC who handles Peyronies alot and he does not believe I have it. Symptoms: soreness in flaccid state, glands do not engorge, 2 very small. indents, slight girth loss( last 2 might be mental),ED for 2.5 years

Mikel7

Ditto what Chrisaaa7 said -  and what wisdom you have for being 21 years old!  
Lump 4/2020, age 62 , Dr Levine 6-26-20, Dors Curve 11/2020, Peyronies
Vit E400mg, COQ10, Heat Therapy, Penimaster, Pentox, Cialis, Restorex
SNHL 7/2020 - Stopped all Meds because ototoxicity  Heat/traction/VED are working. CPPS Diagnosis - Stable :)

20yo

i can relate to everything you said.
i've been messaging with guys on an app for hookups just for the attention and to feel some contact with human beings.
except whenever we had to actually meet i would disappear because im very embarassed of my penis.
i actually had a breakdown a couple days ago because of this reason. i felt the pressure to go out and try to have sex but at the same time i was extremely self conscious and in pain.
what i figured out is that it's probably better to do this important step (trying to have sex with peyronie dick) with someone i really trust. if that means finding a guy that im in a relationship so be it. if not, even someone who i know will not hurt me more than i already do.

sex intrinsically makes you so vulnerable to the other person. and if you have a disease like Peyronies Disease even more. so we should be very careful who we expose our weak spots to. these days you can hear girls making fun of small dicks and so. i think if someone made fun of my dick it would really hurt my mental health and self confidence.

so my advice would be to at least go out with her more and see if she is a respectful girl, someone who wouldn't just backstab you when she's no longer interested to play with you. it's not always easy to find out the moral character of someone you met on tinder tho, out of just a couple dates

i think eventually i will expose myself with someone tho. i can't live in fear. and i think so should everybody. we long for intimacy and sexual connection. i think even just oral and hands can be a lot better than loneliness and void.
20 yo, Peyronies Disease 2020(55 degrees down) + congenital curve
loss of length, stable erection, sensation. hourglassing
antioxidants, hyaluronic acid injected & oral, maybe Yachia in future
Recently started VED 2x a week
Still wants sex and a relationship