Today I talked to a woman that love his ex boyfriend penis implant

[Bud luck]

Today I talked to a woman that I knew from my former company, we were at the gym and we started to chat. She was telling me that she had a boyfriend that was a jerk, but he was great in bed. She told me that he was 54 years old, so I asked her, can he still get hard?, she responded yes, he has a penis implant. My eyes wide open and I wanted to know more, I asked her if she felted any difference from a regular penis and she said that it felted the same, that she loved it. She told me that was the best sex she ever had in her life, that she even tried it while he was sleeping but she couldn't pumped it up!!!!!. What she said to me about the implant it really changed my perspective about implants

[Hawk]

It is incredible that men with decades of experience here can tell you these things over and over, and it rolls off.  You don't trust our honestly, or you think we just talk without knowing what we are talking about.

I have posted on this forum about young women who said they consider a guy with an implant the "Male 2.0 new and improved version".  Merrix and others have posted about sex with different women who either did not know or were thrilled.  One woman in her 40's had her first-ever multiple orgasm with a member with an implant and loved the idea that he could customize the hardness for her.

I am glad you found someone who could get through to you.

[Bud luck]

Hearing directly from a woman makes a big difference, I do trust you but is more impacting hearing the opinions of a woman directly, after all she is the one feeling it. The point is that the woman love it!!!!

[Hawk]

I understand.  

Sadly many will not trust your report unless they happen to run into a woman who tells them that.  Many quotes on this forum from women have said the same thing, yet those quotes did not help you.

It is a great handicap not to be able to learn from the experience of others.  The chances of running into a woman who had sex with a bionic penis are slim.  The chances she would happen to discuss it with you are extremely rare.  Hopefully, others will accept your account and the other accounts of women mentioned on the forum.

[AlohaPete]

I don't think it has to do with not believing the men on this forum, but believing what their women are saying to the men on this forum. Most of the partners of men with Peyronies are wonderful, supportive, gracious souls standing by their man as he tries to deal with this affliction. They are not going to say negative things about the irreversible operation he took to fix it. However, an ex has no reason to lie nor look for a positive spin, so what she is saying has more credence.  

[Hawk]

AlohaPete, If you were were educated about implants or had any personal experience, you would realize the flaw in your statement.  A woman cannot even tell if a man has an implant unless he:
1. Involves her in the process
2. Tells Her
3. Makes it obvious by openly manipulating the inflation/deflation.

So if a woman cannot tell if a man has an implant, then it has to be obvious.  She can't be negative about that which she cannot detect and doesn't know exists.

If you have sex with a woman three times AND she cannot detect the implant, AND she thinks the sex is great AND you tell her you have an implant.  What could she possibly say negatively even if she wanted to?

If a man posts on the forum that over the course of a few years, he has had sex with numerous women, most of whom he did not tell and some which he did tell, and they all responded very positively and specifically to the quality of the sex, how is that difficult to believe?

A woman comes on the forum totally independent of her partner and posts about her amazement at finding out her young partner had an implant which she never even heard of.  She raves about how she wondered what was so awesome about him and how she considers it an "upgrade" or a "Male 2.0",  what about that is difficult to believe?

I guess readers can pick who they choose to believe, including Bud Luck, but to dismiss the volume of posts, ALL saying the same thing, is just irrational.

[jj21]

Forgive me if this question is rude but has anyone found that an implant takes away the intimacy for a woman ? For example having to pump up instaed of her turning you on n seeing it "grow".

[Hawk]

There are no rude questions. The best answer to your question is that you can have sex with a woman without her even being aware you have an implant.  It follows that if she can't tell that nothing can be lost.

Also, men are different.  In over 40 years of marriage, I am confident that my wife never saw me get erect ten times.  Even if she caught me off guard and suggested she was interested, I had a rock-hard erection before my shoes were off and my pants hit the floor.  There might have been times when she woke me in the middle of the night that she felt me getting erect.  So, for us, nothing has changed.

Keep in mind your question has to be considered in context.  No man with a perfectly functioning penis chooses an implant.  So the choice is NEVER between watching a penis get hard and seeing an already hard penis (implant). Instead, it is between seeing a penis that is a 10 on a scale of 1-10 (an implant) or looking at a frustrated man with a limp penis. You can probably guess which one of those is the most arousing.

This has been covered dozens of times but you can pump your penis full of fluid without your partner even being aware.  It just takes a little skill and motivation to master the technique.

A woman's main interest is that she is loved, wanted, and sexually attractive.  Any man with a brain and a little perception can remove all doubt from a woman about his desire for her.

Finally, a question for you.  Did you read this thread?  Did the woman Bud Luck posted about sound like she felt in any way deprived by her ex-lover's penis?

[AlohaPete]

Hi Hawk,

First let me say a big thank you for this forum and all you have done to educate and support men going through Peyronies. This site helped me through my darkest hours and I am indebted to you for that. My statement does not address the fact that you can have sex without women being the wiser nor that it is hard to believe that women would enjoy a bionic penis. Just adding context as to why the comments from an ex are resonating more with some men.

I am on the books for an implant with Dr Karpman in late Jan. However, still a little on the fence as my condition continues to improve as the plaque has gotten dramatically smaller and thinking I should wait to see how much better it will get. The flip side is I've gone from needing pills because of intermittent performance anxiety especially with girls I really like(stakes are higher in my head) to actually having a physical need to get satisfactory erections and getting the implant would cure both physical and anxiety issues and give me a perfectly straight penis again and take away the chance of loss due to loss of blood flow. Now it has a banana look to it with some slight narrowing at the top, but definitely still usable for sex. However, on the other side, I have always been one to take a while to achieve orgasm through penetration and concerned that as reported by some men they take longer to cum with the implant and fear it could further exasperate that. Since peyronies it has been harder to orgasm, luckily for me my girl doesn't mind finishing me with oral. Anyway, time will tell

[Pfract]

Today I talked to a woman that I knew from my former company, we were at the gym and we started to chat. She was telling me that she had a boyfriend that was a jerk, but he was great in bed. She told me that he was 54 years old, so I asked her, can he still get hard?, she responded yes, he has a penis implant. My eyes wide open and I wanted to know more, I asked her if she felted any difference from a regular penis and she said that it felted the same, that she loved it. She told me that was the best sex she ever had in her life, that she even tried it while he was sleeping but she couldn't pumped it up!!!!!. What she said to me about the implant it really changed my perspective about implants

@Bad luck :

Just trying to see here how do you go about having a conversation like that, out of the blue. More so... what where the chances of the boyfriend having an implant as well? I am just trying to picture this conversation unfolding. Yes, there are details missing i am sure but how do you go about it? Also interesting is that like Hawk said, answer to said questions were plastered over the board and you can even see several youtube videos about implantee's on where they talk about their surgery and review the device afterwards....

[Bud luck]

She is my friend and we talk about everything. The conversation started about asking her if she was currently dating, she said that broke up with her boyfriend, she told me that her ex boyfriend was 54 years old and was taking anabolic steroids, so I asked her if he was able to perform, she said that he performed very well with "help", then I asked her how did she know that he was taking a pill ( thinking that she was referring to an oral Erectile Dysfunction medication), then is when she told me that he was using a Penis implant. In her words" The only thing that I miss about him is his Implant".  

[Pfract]

Ahhh! that pretty much clears it up. Indeed what a coincidence.

[jj21]

Keep in mind your question has to be considered in context.  No man with a perfectly functioning penis chooses an implant.  So the choice is NEVER between watching a penis get hard and seeing an already hard penis (implant). Instead, it is between seeing a penis that is a 10 on a scale of 1-10 (an implant) or looking at a frustrated man with a limp penis. You can probably guess which one of those is the most arousing.

A woman's main interest is that she is loved, wanted, and sexually attractive.  Any man with a brain and a little perception can remove all doubt from a woman about his desire for her.

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Great answer - thank you! That does give me hope that in the future if VED and traction aren't effective I can always go the implant route.... I did read the thread but just like the other user said sometimes hearing it from people or from a woman makes a bigger difference. Peyronies gets me depressed sometimes and distorts my thinking.