22 week post op update!
Hey gang! Sorry for not updating more often, but I honestly didn’t have much to add, until now...
I had my 5 month follow up visit, and I had some concerns and questions. Before I get to that, how am I doing?
I’m doing well. The pain level has dropped. I still have some discomfort around the incision area, and some slight numbness in the incision area but overall not too bad.
My erection strength is about 85-90% what it was before surgery. Cialis does help with stronger erections, but its still usable without it, but its a nice to use to give her more normal feeling sex.
So, onto the new development. I have noticed deformation is starting. Its forming almost a slight “S” pattern, where there’s a protrusion in the graft area on the left side, and an indentation on the right side, and when erect, the glans is twisting overall to the left. I’m still straight(ish) and its totally usable, but the deformation is a deflating to say the least.
At my follow up, I saw one of Dr Levines associates, who checked everything out, length is slowly coming back, gained a half inch, and she told me not to panic about the deformation. She feels its the healing, and in a few more months the graft will soften more, and it should straighten out. She said it would be an anomaly if it didn’t. Well, with my luck, it wont heal right. Haha
I have a follow up in November with Dr Levine himself, IF I need it. Meaning, if the deformation doesn’t work itself out with healing and continued
traction, then I see him in November, they will induce an erection and I’ll get everything scanned and checked and we’ll talk options then. If I feel I’m good, I can just cancel the appointment and I’m good to go.
If it gets no worse then it is, I think I can live with it. It works, she’s happy, I’m not in pain... I’m hoping it gets better in time.
SO I ask anyone who has gone through this... Is deformation during healing normal, and did yours get better with time as I WAS TOLD? I have this feeling I’m going to end up seeing him in November and a second surgery may be needed to fix this. God, I hope I’m wrong.
To answer a couple questions above:
I’m doing well. Not perfect, but much better than before surgery. I would absolutely have the surgery again, so if you’re on the fence, and weigh the risks, and go to a reputable expert in the field, it’s made my sex life enjoyable again. I do have a mental block of hurting myself again, so sex is different than it was. I take things slow, and less aggressive then I did. Not sure ill ever get over that, but hey, I can have sex with my own erection.
The thing I was reminded of from the follow up visit, and its a good thing to beat in your head in case you are considering the surgery, you will NEVER be the way you were pre peryonies. Things will feel weird, foreign, and you’ll constantly be comparing things post surgery to before. Impossible to not, but keep it in mind. You wont be the same, but if its successful, you will be fixed to a point where it’s usable. I’m sure in time it will be “normal” to me, but I will have 7 months more of healing.