Understanding girl might have saved my life

[Fubar94]

So I recently went on a date with this girl. She's 30 years old, had a lot of crappy  exes that cheated on her, took advantage of how kind she is. She is the kind of girl that gives 1000% for a guy. We went on a date and I already kissed her. We click very well and chat all day long. She even send me a love letter. Yesterday night I told her about my problem cause I felt like she already friendzoned me anyway. When I told her she said she was so sorry for me, but its not a big deal to her and she accepts whatever dick I have. She even said that she's not friendzoning me just paranoid about ruining our special bond so taking it slow. I think at 26 I finally found something that feels like love that goes deeper than the superficial. Not saying this is gonna happen to you all and even I might still ruin it, but so far I know now that it's possible to still date and find a woman to accept you. She also told me some intimate details about preferences and turns out she likes bambi sex anyway and hates getting banged out porn style. So there you have it guys.. even if your dick falls off you can still find happiness.

[Juan]

love always find the way.
I'm very happy about you.

[Hawk]

If I recall Fubar,

I think you used to be one of those that would argue that what you just posted was unrealistic and non-sense when posted by others.  I could not be happier for you.  It is important that you reach out to those who feel the way you used to feel as you have here.  

[Tortão Pra Direita]

I'm happy for you! There are always people that care more for what someone is than what someone has. It's our job to find them.

I'm creating the courage to go out again and find someone.  

[Pfract]

And you are correct Hawk. It looks like he has seen the light? Hopefully he will inspire others.  

[Daniel2222]

bro i'm so happy for you . I'm glad that understanding people still exist.  

[Hawk]

There have ALWAYS been understanding women of depth, sincerity, and compassion.  That is why what Peyronies Disease does to your mind is far more damaging than what it does to your penis.

AND, it is the one thing only you can fix.

[Fubar94]

Update: just had a BJ that felt like nothing. Didnt cum. Shes great and accepts me, but I can't. Decided I still need either a solution or it's gonna kill me.

[Tortão Pra Direita]

Update: just had a BJ that felt like nothing. Didnt cum. Shes great and accepts me, but I can't. Decided I still need either a solution or it's gonna kill me.

Why did you feel like nothing? Do you feel loss of sensibility?
Maybe you were too focued on your Peyronie's and couldn't relax properly. Don't give up. Now you have a girl that can help you with your problem.

[Fubar94]

I lost a lot of sensitivity and most of the scarring is around the glans so it makes sex a lot less pleasurable for me. I got this from jelqing as a teen and somehow it's worsening till this day. Not even this great woman can numb my pain. My desire for sex is only STRONGER now thst I met her and not being able to have satisfying sex kills me. I wish she could help.me but she can't. She can accept me for the broken man I am, but I simply don't want to be a broken man anymore.

[Tortão Pra Direita]

I wish she could help.me but she can't. She can accept me for the broken man I am, but I simply don't want to be a broken man anymore.

You shouldn't feel defeated, man.
Believe me, I know how this is difficult.
You have a great girl, and she understand your situation. Don't let her go cause you feel down. You can work on getting better while having this relationship.

Also, there are ways to satisfy her that she will enjoy a lot.

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[Hawk]

Fubar,

I know this is not about you knowing how to satisfy her.  It is about you wanting to feel normal.

A word of warning.  Don't let her feel that you don't enjoy what she is doing.  Most people get intense pleasure out of knowing they are giving pleasure.  Few things will damped a relationship more than her feeling like you don't totally enjoy her.  Don't make her feel like that by getting mentally into the act or even if you have to fake it for her benefit until you find a solution.

[Fubar94]

Agreed hawk and I kinda calmed down a little knowing she accepts me nonetheless. My main frustration is me not enjoying it like I used to but I let her know I love her and like everything she does to me and yes I notice thsts most important to her. Thanks

[Bud luck]

I have a deformed penis, and now I have bad ED. I can't relay on any woman, I'm forced to be content on my own, you can't depend on anyone to be happy  

[westerntown]

Sure Bud Luck, you cant depend on anyone to be happy, That is true.

The only person that can make you happy is yourself. Its all about the perspective you take.

You have fibrosis in the penis, but not in the lungs. Pulmonary fibrosis would net u 2-4 years to live. As we all know fibrosis is irreversible. That means these poor patients contract the condition and are left with no other alternative then to die.

You my friend have an alternative. You can do whatever you set your mind to, outside of having a good erection. While this is not the ideal reality, it is your reality. You need to understand this. I too complain, but then I tell myself complaining will get me no where other than a therapist.

We want to be happy, and we need to begin by expressing gratitude for the things we have, and not dwell on the things we dont.