my husband has peyronie disease please help me

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kiaskias

Hi
First of all I must say that my english isn't very good. So it is a bit diffucult to follow the forum for me and ı might make mistakes while writing english.

my husband has been very stressed and nervous lately. He said he wanted to talk to me about a month ago and said he had peyronie disease. He explained a disease which I heard for the first time, but when he explained, he said that it is possible that our sexual relationship will end. Of course it was very diffucult for him while he was saying these. I couldn't understand at that time. He said that this disease is less likely to heal and is progressing. My husband is 39 years old, I am 36. We have been married for 12 years and we were very compatible. we had no problems until now. sexual relationship is also very important for both of us in our marriage. I did not notice anything until he talk with me. Just 2 month ago, he could not have an erection. I thought it was the stress of the day. After the following days he always got away from me. When he decide to speak with me He said that he had been in pain for about 9 months and that he had a plaque in the last 1 month.  I couldn't convince him to go an urologist. he  never allows me to speak about this subject. His mood is very bad. He is very angry and irritable.  I am afraid for he will misunderstand me what I do. When I go to bed, I even feel afraid to hug him, if  he thinks that ı want to have sexual relationship with him and he feels bad about it. I'm so helpless I can't tell anyone. I don't know how to treat him. After explaining, we got sex twice again, I did not notice a problem. But is it more harmful to have sex? or is it better to have sex? He doesn't let me to hold or see his penis now.   I am very kind to him now. I am sad too much but ı am always smiling to him.  which position is more safely for him? I can ask lots of questions. Because ı am very novice with this disase. Please help me. My marriage is getting so bad this way. We are so young yet. And l love him very much. I dont want to see him so sad. Thank you and l will be glade if you answer my questions.
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samsung

Everyone else here will answer all of your questions. Just know that it will always be possible to have a sexual relationship. Even if his curvature and ED prevent him entirely, there is still the option of getting an implant.

Please let us know any additional details about his situation if you know (degree of deformity. If he has had an ultrasound, etc.).

Eswt is not effective at treating peyronie's. Possibly for pain and ED a little bit but it will not break up the plaque.
45 y.o. Single. Onset of symptoms (pain-stinging like a wasp) @ 6/2018. No sudden injury. Curve developed slowly. 40 deg. dorsal. Hourglassing. Torsion to left flaccid. 4 rounds xiaflex. Restorex, DMSO+, heat, arginine, cialis, lipoic acid, vit. K2

projectpd

there is plenty of interesting information, ideas, and advice on this forum. It would be good if he (and yourself?) spend some time reading it.  
for example that vit E and colchicine are not thought to be particularly good treatments on this forum.  Actually, watch out for E vitamins, as I posted earlier today.
Likewise, ESWT might be potentially dangerous. Although some studies are encouraging, one of the studies on it advised that it should not be used for Peyronie's.
It's possible to get injuries from girl on top sex, or hitting the penis in some way.  don't worry, it sounds like it could be worse .
Age 57, Onset 2010, 2" shortening, shrinking and angulation of glans, weaker erections, 30 degree bend. Mild pain few months, but far from worst symptom. Tried many ideas, not just from here, but not consistently. Moderate improvement, maybe 40%

LWillisjr

I am guessing that this is all new for your husband as well. Many men also have not heard of this disease. And even more so we get scarred and don't know what to do. His loss of erection is probably more from anger or stress. It is not directly associated with Peyronies. here is usually some curvature with his erection with Peyronies. Some men have a curve so bad they are not able to have sex even with an erection. I would encourage you to have sex when it is possible. This will help build up his confidence. There are some things that can be done to try to treat Peyronies Disease although there is no absolute cure.
Developed peyronies 2007 - 70 degree dorsal curve
Traction/MEDs/Injections/Surgery 2008 16 years Peyronies free now
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