I would really appreciate any guidance as this is something I have found very difficult to figure out or know how to handle.
About 4 months ago I started getting pain during erections, to the point I tried everything to not get one at all. A month after the pain started, I was diagnosed with a kidney stone and that prompted me to go see an urologist. I told her about the kidney stone and that I have had pain during erections. She asked me if I had a curvature to any side and I said maybe a bit (I wasn’t 100% sure) and that I have had no injuries that I can think so.
She didn’t think it was important and didn’t physically check for anything on the first visit. She just said she thinks the pain is connected to the kidney stone so that when the stone is out it should get resolved.
Fast forward 1 more month, kidney stone is still inside. Painful erections still occur although I found that relaxing my anus (which is normally contracted) helped with the pain as well as using hand lotion for lubrication. Another month later I went to get a test where they put a camera through your urethra to observe the bladder and look for the stone. They just saw that it was still in my ureter and so I pressed the painful erection issue again and she told me the same thing, that she thinks it’s connected to the kidney stone.
Fast forward one more month, today. The pain seems to have gone for the most part, but now I can say there is a change in appearance. I should say that I feel that for a long time (7 years or more) I’ve had trouble maintaining an erection without physical stimulation for the most part; definitely got worse in the last year.
My penis now looks like it is hunching when hard (facing me) and the head doesn’t get fully hard some times. I have found I’ve had to pull the foreskin down for the head to get released from the foreskin and so the head can get hard. I have had (for I don’t know how long) something that looked like as if a vein in the shaft got thick and enlarged. I could press it and it gave way to the finger. It was round and somewhat squishy right under where the head meets the shaft. It seems like it’s gotten a bit harder when erect last time I checked (almost like a small pebble). I can only feel it when it’s hard not when
flaccid. I believe it has lost some length.
Curious facts, I started being vegan/vegetarian since April of last year. I started taking lamictal for seizures (I’ve read it has beta blockers). I was taking Keppra for the past 8 years but wanted to try something different since I thought the side effects were wearing me out.
I have an appointment for the kidney stone this week, so I would like to be prepared to know what to do/ask beforehand and during the appointment.
Some questions:
1)Does it sound like Peyronies Disease?
2)If it is, for mild cases is there a chance it goes away meaning it straightens back by itself after some time?
3)Should I straight up tell the urologist I suspect I might have Peyronies Disease?
4) Most importantly, what should my next step(s) be?
5) should I avoid masturbation or sex?
I would appreciate so much some type of info, this has taken a toll on my mental health I am in a time where my life has been crumbling apart from other reasons
Thanks