Could peyronies be deliberately inflicted by a sexual partner?

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devonguy

Hi Guys, I have recently Joined this forum to look for information for a friend of mine.

He is convinced that his girlfriend deliberately set out to inflict Peyronie's disease on him as a parting gift before she split up with him. they were in a relationship for some years and in his words she was a 'sexpert'
and they enjoyed great sex together.

The last time they saw each other she insisted on giving him oral sex and for the 1st time experienced her nipping away at him during it. He insists she was not a nipper and this behavior was something that had not happened before. He didn't notice the effects of what she had done until the next day, and was unable to contact her and has had no contact with her since.

This was some years ago now and he has not been able to have sex with a women since. He has been traumatized by this disease and remains constant in his belief that this women has done this to him deliberately. He feels a lot of anger towards her and as yet, has not confronted her about this.

While i can believe that his Peyronie's was caused by by this BJ I am sceptical that it could be done deliberately, and so advising restraint until at least he knows it is possible. I have done some googling in the past on his behalf and could find nothing. after another long chat with him yesterday it seems that sessions with a therapist are keeping this in the forefront of his mind, although he tells me that it is always there every single day. Due to our latest conversation and his continuing anger toward her i wanted to ask this forum what the chances are  that this is 'a thing'
I knew his ex and she does have a medical background but find it difficult to think that she would set out to hurt him like this. They basically had a good relationship and as far as i know, he had done nothing to warrant an attack like this.

What do you guys think, is it possible??
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program4004

It could be. Especially if she knew it would hurt him. Bruising is all it takes and some people have a genetic disposition towards it. Let's say he was semi erect when it happened or fully erect. He could get internal bruising if she bit down really hard. Overall that's one of the reasons why im oral sex teeth can be very dangerous. But all I can say is that he could try suing but that's all I know to pay for damages. But idk if it's too late or not to sue for damages. If I were him I'd speak with a lawyer and also a doctor to see how severe the damage is.

TLDR: She could have severely bruised his penis leading to it. But I think it is a genetic predisposition otherwise. Some men fracture their penises and get it repaired and are just fine. While others do less than that and have it develop. It affects anything from 5-13 percent of the male population. So it's quite common. Some more severe than others.

25,  PrePeyronies possibly, semi erect masturbation injury on Sept 2017.  ED for 2017 - Mar. 2019. Semi erect waisting, normal erections. Treatment: Vit E, rice sock heat therapy, abstinence. No official tests yet (doppler, MRI).

devonguy

Thanks for your reply. He didnt say that she bit down hard he described it as nipping of his penis. during the years they were together he had not experienced this from her, which i guess is why he feels she intended to hurt him. My friend has a sort of dimple/hole in his palm, has had it for a long time, he told me that something like that could increase the chances that somebody with it could have a greater chance of developing Peyronies Disease.

Although they never discussed it together she may have looked it up herself. I still feel that she wouldn't have done this deliberately, but then i don't have to live with this condition, and consequently not thinking about it every day like my pal does.
Anybody else ever hear of anything like this?
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program4004

Man. That makes sense why he's worried about it. Scarring in the hand causing an indentation. Did he get any proper scans btw? Like an Ultrasound? It could also be other things too like compressed arteries or heart disease. Just to rule out other things as well.  
25,  PrePeyronies possibly, semi erect masturbation injury on Sept 2017.  ED for 2017 - Mar. 2019. Semi erect waisting, normal erections. Treatment: Vit E, rice sock heat therapy, abstinence. No official tests yet (doppler, MRI).

james1947

My two cents

First a question:
How she supposed to know that Peyronies exist at all? Not many people are aware about this disease, especially woman.

An advice, that I stick to it myself all my life:
Don't have sex with a woman that you decided to end your relationship with her.

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum