Hi, everyone! I'm 25 years old and my boyfriend 30 years old. I feel that our sex life has become more of a science experiment than nothing. I've said, I don't care what you have to do, I love you and I want to have sex with you. But one day I'm frustrated because he doesn't seem to want to change, not for himself or for us and I don't know what to do. I was going to suggest therapy to him because I can't think of anything else and because I have put up with it for so long. Until the friend of mine told me to try to consult by phone because we have similar problem. My friend got about phoneconsultation.com and this is f2f doctor's visit. Hoping that it will work. Can anyone advice me please? :(
Does he have peyronie's disease? If not, I assume he is suffering from ED anyway, based on your description. If so, is it psychological, or is here a physical reason for this problem? Has he tried Viagra?
Before we offer suggestions, we need some more information on what the specific issue is. That way you have descrbied it covers a multitude of issues.
We are mor than happy to help, but don't understand specifically with what you are trying to deal with.
I really appreciate your advice everyone. Thank you so much!
The cynic in me thinks this girl is simply advertising the site that she linked to in her first post.
Jessica,
Although your excited gratitude is endearing, you did not actually get any "advice" to thanks others for. This along with your link to an internet pharmacy makes me think this is a SPAM posting.
But since you are already grateful for "advice", here is some (after your thankyou, but hopefully still in the nick of time):
Don't shop at phone consultation.com. It is a rip-off pharmacy that specializes in selling medications to those with chronic pain, and often not doing it (ie they take your money and you don't get anything back).
Hope that does help. BTW, did you mention Peyronie's anywhere in your post? Wasn't clear he has that.
Tim
Quote from: skunkworks on October 06, 2009, 10:49:58 PM
The cynic in me thinks this girl is simply advertising the site that she linked to in her first post.
Looks like you are right skunkworks :(. It contains whole sentences from a post on an ed site from a year ago. The only significant difference I can see is the inclusion of the URL (which doesn't work anyway so is pointless).
QuoteI've basically said, I don't care what you have to do, I love you and I want to have sex with you. We are 25 years old and we are like a 60 year old couple who has resigned themselves to companionship (I'm beginning to think that I'm ok with that because we are one stop short of friend-town at this point). I feel like I have tried everything I can, but I'm frustrated because he doesn't seem to want to change, not for himself or for us, and I don't know what to do. I am at the point where I think we need to break up because I can't continue to feel like the only one who cares. I have told him all of this and that I need a break, so he is again saying that he'll work on it, but this is the cycle we always get into- he'll be good for a few months and then stop everything he should be doing...including refill his prescription (which I really don't understand).
I was going to suggest therapy to him because I can't think of anything else and because I have put up with it for so long, but your post suggested that that would make it worse. Is there anything else I can do to make him ok with all of this? I love him, but if after everything we've been through I can't get him to change, what can?
Please offer any advice you can!
- ed-medications.com/Forum/topic/boyfriend-with-ed?q=boyfriend-with-ed
Here are some recent additions:
peyroniestreatment.com (this is a purchased but unused domain name)
peyroniesinfo.com (this one links you to a Fastsize site)
peyroniesdiseasehelp.com (this one links to a book written by "Bill Bodri", and includes a glowing reference from the ubiquitous Dr Herazy).
peyroniescurvature.com (this one has "independent reviews" of penis stretchers (with convenient discussions of why all other means of help don't work) and then links to their "number 1" recommended one, the "SizeGenetics"" penis stretcher.
peyronies-disease-help.com (this is harder to categorize, except it IS trying to sell you stuff of unproven benefit.)
Tim
Maybe he can't cure Peyronie's but apparently, he can make you feel better about it:
http://eftbytelephone.com/
We need a "known peyronie's scammer" section on the forum. Kind of like snopes.com, but for penises.
-Skjald
There is NOTHING that Dr. Herazy cannot do!
These are the Internet version of telemarketers. In the case of telemarketers, their first statement is usually something like "I'm not trying to sell you anything", but that usually is a very reliable indication that they are. The same is true of websites. They all have that feel that they are engaged in some sort of charity operation with the whole focus on helping you out in your time of need. Whenever you start to get that feeling, hang on to your wallets. Around here, when we try to give advice, we don't make a dime off of it. In fact I sometimes send people here to legitimate vendors who have offered me rewards for sending potential customers their way. I purposely don't make use of those kinds of programs because I feel it would color my judgement and would amount to a conflict of interest in terms of the information I want to share. And I know that same sort of thing applies to most everybody else around here. Occasionally, we have a spammer drop by, but we usually figure them out pretty quickly. All of us here are either suffering from this disease, have a loved one who is, or, in a few cases, have useful niche expertise possibly related to the disease and stick to that particular subject matter. And if you have this disease, all of us are here for you. We care about you and we want to see you get the best possible treatment. And we will always tell you the straight scoop as we understand it whether it is what you want to hear or not. And WHATEVER we tell you will be vetted by multiple equally experienced and well meaning bystanders. So, in the end, its a choice only you can make as to where you go for help. If you don't like what you see around here, there are a lot of sites out there that will tell you what you want to hear, but in almost every case it won't be free. In fact it won't likely even be cheap. And it could cost you a lot of money before you finally discover you've been had and the only evidence you are left with is a mail drop address in some foreign country. - George
WORNING
Bali Mojo is a 'Herbal Viagra' Potent Natural Sexual Enhancer according to they website. I am not posting the link because it is a money maker and nothing else.
The main component is Tongkat Ali (Malaysian name) Pasak Bumi (Indonesian name) that is a plant growing just in Indonesia and Malaysia.
Indonesia is full with "male enhancer" natural, traditional "medicines" but the Bali Mojo is not available there.
My email to them:
Dear Miss/Sir
Is Bali Mojo available in Indonesia?
Best regards
They answer:
Sorry, believe it or not no.
James