How do I get into the Ladies room?
I am new, my husband has had Peyronies Disease and had corrective surgery, but feels depressed and has withdrawn from our marriage.
Surgery for him was very traumatic and his sexual desire has completely gone.
He won't see a counsellor and won't talk to anyone.
I am not sure what to do next, advice appreciated.
samantha4
Write a PM to Christine to get access, she is the moderator of the Ladies room.
I would advise you to read first the link bellow, it will give you basic knowledge regarding Peyronies:
Peyronies Survival Guide - Information for New Members - Peyronies Society Forums (https://www.peyroniesforum.net/index.php/topic,3180.0.html)
Also if you will give us some more details regarding your husband symptoms, forum members will be able to answer to your post.
You have stated:
QuoteSurgery for him was very traumatic and his sexual desire has completely gone.
What was the surgery he had made?
James
Hi James,
He had the Lue's procedure and was circumcised at the same time.
The consultant didn't explain about being circumcised - so he was shocked when he woke up.
He had the worse degree bend you can have so surgery was he thought the best way forward.
He can get erections but only in the mornings but very briefly - viagra and other cialis are not working for him
He is a private man and I suppose the trauma and shock of the whole experience has affected him psychologically that he has shut down from me totally.
I don't know how to handle this situation anymore - or what to do next.
I will contact Christine to gain access many thanks.
samantha4
I wish you was knowing this site before the surgery, but better later than never.
We consider surgery as last resort, not first.
But don't give up. I know for almost every man, his manhood is the most important thing, this is the reason in my opinion that he
"has shut down from me totally".
Ones he will realize that have solutions for his problems he may change.
Maybe Christine can as a woman give you more than I can in the subject.
I will just ad again, read this forum to understand what your husband options are.
James
Samantha,
I gave you access to the private Ladies Room.
Best of luck
I thought I was given access to the Ladies Room, but don't see it in the list of boards. My husband is suffering from Peyronies, and I am seeking support as his partner....but I am not interested in posting in public forums about such a private topic. Can someone help with access?
Thanks,
Michi8
Hi Michi8
Please send a PM to Christine or/and LWillisjr.
They will help you in the subject.
I sent them a PM also
Best wishes
James
I confirmed and you should have access. The ladies forum should appear right before "Alternative treatments for Peyronies Disease"
Hello,
I would like access to the Ladies Room too, please. Partner is newly diagnosed and would love some advice on how to handle it. Not sure the reality has hit for either of us properly.
Thank you
LilyElizabeth
Write a PM to Christine or LWillisjr to get access to the ladies room
James
My husband has said that I am not supportive. I am trying to find ways to be more supportive. Can I have access to this forum?
Hello Struggling Spouse,
Im sorry you have to join the forum but we are all here to help. Can I ask how he feels you aren't being supportive?
Struggling Spouse
Write a PM to Christine or LWillisjr to get access to the ladies room
James
Permission granted
Hi- i applied for access to the ladies room with my registration (I thought) nothing seems to have come thru yet - any thoughts?
TVM
Hello, I will send a msg to Admin to grant you access. Welcome to the forum. There is a lot of good information here.
If you like please share with us why you joined.
Stabler67
Hi I still haven't found the way into the ladies room - there is nothing before "Alternative treatments for Peyronies Disease" that says Ladies Room for me logged in.
I am a new partner of a 60 yo Peyronies Disease "sufferer".
I personally only have clitoral orgasms so have no issues around not being penetrated.
I do want to make sure making love feels equitable & I don't miss anything. I also want to make sure its not all about me now he has a participative partner & that does not get taken for good enough.
So far I can't tell when he orgasms I've missed the changes in breathing,but can tell he has ejaculated obviously. All new & learning about each other we are both having an awesome time on the discovery channel, only slept over 3 times!
BB
Hello BB,
I have sent a msg to get you access to the Ladies Only Room,
Can you tell us about your partners Peyronies, what his symptoms are how long has he had it, was he officially diagnosed, this information will help us help you.
Have you are your partner discussed what feels good for.him?
Stabler67