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suicidecomingsoon

Do not stay with girls if you can not F~@< them, do not stay with them until you solve this.

It will only hurt you more

I write this for the thread that SergeyAnael opened

Werther

Hey man, your inbox is full! Delete some messages, because I can't answer to your PMs.

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NeoV

You can stay with a girl with or without Peyronie's, and a very attractive girl at that, even if you can't have a lot of sex with her. The reality is that staying with one person, in general, is not natural and is a very big challenge. Even without Peyronie's women will leave you for other men if you don't understand what's going on, and sometimes it's simply inevitable. Your woman can leave you for a man with a smaller penis, or even with Peyronie's or some other terrible issue. It's less about your issues and more about what you are to her, whether she is getting validation, comfort, and her needs met.

I had one extremely hot girl hand me the rice sock after sex in order to help me with Peyronie's. She was really cute about it and wanted to be with me long term, and I ended it. How are you handling yourself with women? How many are you seeing? Are you giving them a positive experience? Can you look them in the eye and own your Peyronie's in a light, committed way? I know it isn't easy, but there is a distinction and understanding that has to be here.

I have to agree that traction, heat, and all this stuff is easier done alone though. I have done traction in front of women a lot of times, it's totally fine, but I largely prefer being alone for that. Besides, even without Peyronie's some independence is very good for the relationship.

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Isn't all womens just a biologically sluts? They're always in "search mode", it doesn't matter if you're ill or not, if you're hung or not, if you're rich or not. They're constantly searching for a new cocks. When you realise it, life become a bit easier.

TonySa

OMG, Grow up guys!  It doesn't matter how much we're hurting—this is no excuse to be so hateful towards women.  It just screams insecurity...especially insecurity about your dick.  🤮. Re-read neo's post and try to learn and grow up.
PxD 2 yrs 9/16.  Failed all treatment. 9/11/18: excision, grafting & implant Dr Karpman MtnView Ca, AMS CX 18cm + 3-1cm RTEs.
Pump failed.  2/11/20 Dr Karpman installed Titan 22cm +1cm RTE.

Hontas


being hateful towards women isn't the solution

Werther

Yo guys, it's so damn obvious: if you function and you can F~@<, just do it! What would you have to complain about?  

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Quote from: Hontas on March 27, 2018, 05:52:24 PM
... So even if my dick shrinked to a twisted 10 cm pencil, i would continue having sex as usual would just have to change partners. I think therapy helps by a huge amount. It is mindblowing how our outlook on life changes how happy we are about something. I focus on my positives and good qualities that migitates peyronies, I look hot af and am tall so who cares, long penis short penis doesn't matter i will continue having sex. And to the guys who are in such a bad spot, learn to live by yourself and maybe just earn lots of money. Women will "love" you when you have tons of money anyway...

Strong coping. The worst part is that in your mind you're still realise that this is just your psychological defense mechanism.

Hontas

AlexSamo

My dick hasn't shrunken much

Hontas

Quote from: Werther on March 27, 2018, 08:04:57 PM
Yo guys, it's so damn obvious: if you function and you can F^@%, just do it! What would you have to complain about?
Just go for it man. Exactly

Werther

Even our problems are nothing when compared with other severe medical conditions such as tetraplegia (where, moreover, sexual dysfunction is part of the complete package) and nonetheless the world is plenty of tetraplegic people who aren't depressed and enjoy their lives.

I was just trying to bring in a bit of a reason. I know it sucks having a below-average dick, but if you could actually still use it, because it functions, then why should you sit down in a little angle crying over yourself and denying sex to yourself? In this case, it's not that you CAN'T have sex, it's that you DON'T WANT TO. This is a kind of perspective that you can actually and effectively change and doing this could only be beneficial to yourself.

EDIT: I'd thank you Fakrigier/Hontas, really. Readers have to know, however, that you modified your previous post without pointing it out (for the record, you actually wrote in that post that your dick had shrinkened and its effect woud be totally comparable to Erectile Dysfunction).
Please, stop altering the sense of your posts in order to make them sound like the exact opposite of what you actually wrote in your original message.

Hontas

[Full quote removed - You consistently violate this forum rule!!!]

I think you are overestimating the problem. Just having fun is the solution

Sadguy

Quote from: Hontas on March 27, 2018, 10:11:39 PM
Yes, cry over the fact that your dick is small,bent,ugly, nobody is going to help you go have sex. NOBODY, except you
When you have ED that does not respond to medication it is not the same.
If my cock was smaller, or ugly, or even if my cock only had the curve I have but without ED I would be much happier. Not completely happy, but more than now for sure. I would think if I wanted I could have sex with that girl or the other or she could give me a blowjob without having to worry about having and maintaining an erection, I could enjoy sex (not all the positions I wanted or how I would like but in many positions I could have it and last and do it as I wanted)

But with ED that does not work with pills, I can not, even if I were ugly if my penis worked I would have confidence and could F~@< if the opportunity comes. But no, I can not, I'm a normal guy, I'm young,I'm fit, I've let a lot of girls go by and I can not get that weight off of me, it's just too hard
Please go to PROFILE then FORUM PROFILE to replace this text with your profile info such as age, date of onset, symptoms, treatments tried, etc

Werther

Totally agree with Sadguy. This is the point of this thread.

If Peyronie's had given you curvature, shortening but no Erectile Dysfunction, you could actually adapt yourself to this new situation and go on with your sexual life; in this case, it'd be only more harmful not having any sex if you want to, but you actually can.

If you have organic Erectile Dysfunction (unresponsive to PDE5i and injections), then it's really hard, because sex is no more an option. And I have to agree with OP's first post: in a case like this, it's only going to be pointless and even harmful being with a girl if you can't perform. So, if you don't have a partner, before you find one, "solve this first".

EDIT: again, take a look at my Reply #11 on: March 27, 2018, 09:31:55 PM.: Fakrigier/Hontas keeps destroying the sense of the discussion and he's not even smart. the message appearing right above SadGuy's one is totally different than the one that he actually submitted originally (just take a look at part of the message quoted by SadGuy that clearly shows how the user actually wrote something completely different than what's reported now, after his "subtle" edit).

james1947

What about an implant?
You can have an erection lasting enough for any woman

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum