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Hontas

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How to make out without having issues
« on: January 15, 2018, 05:41:25 PM »

Hello,
Since I am fairly young I have erections when we kiss or even get close with my girlfriend and when those happen while I am wearing jeans or pants it causes further trauma and bending to my penis. So I always avoid erections while outside, even when sitting since the curve pushes and tries to injure itself more. How to deal with those erections or how do I freely make out with her without having sex? We are still not on the sex phase so I have no choice of getting comfortable... It is very annoying that this disease not only stops me from having sex, gets my penis smaller and now I can't even make out. It is ridiculous. I tried wearing comfortable sweatpants however the curve is still very pronounced and upward and the worst thing is now I have one more scarring in the base of the shaft so if I have erections I %100 damage my penis because it tries to straighten the bend. My scarring cant be seen on any kind of medical device because of human error, and it is really new. So nobody believes me(from family) about how I have a lot of scar spots in my penis that bends it. I bet all of you will jump the "its psychological" train too. I mean I don't care if you believe it, just assume you do and give an advice maybe? How can I not be able to even make out with my girlfriend freely??? I am 20 years old FFS, then my family ask me why it is bothering me so much...

Is there actually any solution for this?
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #1 on: January 15, 2018, 06:18:44 PM »

How many degrees is your bend?  Have you Erectile Dysfunction?
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #2 on: January 15, 2018, 10:30:33 PM »

I cant determine the degrees since its bend everywhere and has scar even at the base i dont think the curve is the worst its just that it has multiple upwards scars causing it to curve 40 degrees but its not sharp its banana shaped.
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #3 on: January 15, 2018, 10:48:15 PM »

If you're getting a banana 40degs curve ..... it's getting erect then ?? ..... a positive start point for you at least ??

I've got 45degs upwards, a total of about 7 big dents from base to glans, lost about 1.5" in length and about 30% girth and it veers to the left about 20 degs .... and I'm single .... that makes it tough ..... everyone's erections work against the bend by definition. I would't worry about that causing further damage. It's having sex that might. You'd need to be very careful, especially if the erection isn't firm and stable with the deformity
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #4 on: January 16, 2018, 07:04:40 AM »

Dude i had like 7 different injuries that caused me to bend but i only remember the first one happening from trauma. My erections are very bad since they are unstable. I should only worry about further damage because every little thing damages it. Not sex
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #5 on: January 16, 2018, 08:59:09 AM »

i got injured as a kid now i have a 20 degree downwards bend. I lose my 100% erections a lot more quicker than I should.

You cant stop yourself from getting erections from any foreplay. Why would you want to? I understand you are scared you hurt yourself which is understandable. But look at this way you, you get surgery and straighten your penis. I bet now that its straight you'll want to be able to get an erect easily.

How I see it you have one problem and you are looking for another one. I have read that you can do some deep breathing counting back from a 100 that will help to keep you calm. Anyway you should be happy you are getting hard erections. Maybe make a google search. I know taking Androcur will stop them but I don't see why taking pill to stop an erection will do any good when you don't need it.

I know our bends are different but i just use my pants leg to hide the erection when I get one. I run it down my leg and let it curve anyway it wants to. I don't feel any pressure or strain when doing this, but I can move, I have to stay seated.
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #6 on: January 16, 2018, 02:07:03 PM »

I don't get %100 erections when I make out, I get half assed ones who make me prone to more injury. And everytime i tried to conceal my erections in my pants i had another injury happened to me. At least each injury only shortens it by 0.3 cm or so and not more. But when you have like 7-8 of them in different areas its impossible to deal with. I won't be able to have hard sex as well, I don't know what to do and my girlfriend acts like I bail out or don't try. She doesn't even support me one bit, this disease not only makes me lose my sex ability, also makes these type of unresponsible girls run away from me. Like she needs to grow up and accept the fact that this is the part of me we have to deal with, but she just acts cold and indifferent about it. And this is not a popular or very demanded girl. She is just a normal person who is not very social. What happens when i try to date other women, hotter ones? Then I lose immediately. There needs to be a solution for this
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2018, 02:35:09 PM »

You have Peyronies?
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #8 on: January 16, 2018, 05:36:22 PM »

You have Peyronies?
Are you joking? Yes, of course. Why would I open this topic then?
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #9 on: January 16, 2018, 08:15:15 PM »

Hontas,

The topic you opened here had nothing to do with Peyronies, it is about how to make out without getting aroused.

I know you have been on the forum for a year now. You might have constant inflammation but I don't know that I would call this Peyronies. And you are constantly talking about causing additional injury to yourself and constantly causing more scarring. I don't know what type of scarring you are referring to, and maybe this is a different type of scarring.

I actually believe you are dealing with a lot of issues, but I am not convinced that Peyronies is one of them. And before you tell me I am crazy, you first posted on the forum that you had been to urologists and they have told you that you don't have Peyronies. But I also know how bad doctors are at even diagnosing this in the first place.

So yeah, I don't know if you have Peyronies or not. For sure I think you have some pain and also dealing with erection issues. But this alone is not a diagnosis for Peyronies. When you first joined you posted some pictures of yourself asking "Is this Peyronies" and all I could tell from your pictures was a very mild curve to the left which easily could be congenital. It would be interesting for you to post pictures now to do a before and after comparison over the last 12 months.
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #10 on: January 16, 2018, 09:13:40 PM »

Lwillisjr,

That's funny because i have been to the two best experts in my country about Peyronies and they both said i have the disease. One didn't believe how aggressive i say it to be. And the other who also has seen countless of young peyronies patients said to me that in my case the disease is severe and it could go on like this causing further trauma until the acute phase ended. So it is %100 peyronies and the experienced operational doctor agreed with my symptoms and simply told me to accept the disease and that there are surgeries that can straighten the penis and give you back your length such as incision and grafting(or excision). So he told me to wait it out. And I am saying that my relationship is on a thread because of this and while I can get erect, constant injuries and turtling and hard flaccid prevents me from having sex more than 2 mins. Now I can't even make out without risking injury, and my girlfriend wants me to act like this isn't happening at all.

And yes, the first 5 urologists didn't know anything about the topic yet they all said it was fine. They were just clueless.

12 months ago photos are here, and I had almost no upwards curve. Left curve hasn't changed but i have upwards curve now and I will share the photos comparing 2 months ago and now. I know for a fact that my dick was straight as an arrow and I didn't have it pointing upwards
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #11 on: January 16, 2018, 09:52:57 PM »

I asked because I didn’t see where you said you had it. I have scarring but it’s from a fracture not Peyronies. So I was just trying to make sense of why someone could hurt their self so easily.
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Re: How to make out without having issues
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2018, 06:55:57 AM »

Update on this topic, still a big issue and now since i take daily cialis my erections are pushing to my pants tighter and they cause more damage and curvature after a few days. My penis is now unrecognizable compared to its old shape and size and i am just going to laugh at the fact that "admin" of this site said that i don't have peyronies while i think I am having an exceptionally agressive and bad case of peyronies since even he can't relate to it. Its bad already that I am living through this and when I have probably among the worst cases of peyronies, people say that I don't have one because they don't think it can injure that easily lol.

Whatever I need a solution to this? Maybe get an implant to make sure I don't get erections, so that I don't injure my penis again? I don't know man, I have been to 3 best experts in my country and they are just dumbfounded that I have THIS BAD of a peyronies at THIS AGE, that they don't want to believe it. But when they look at the pictures of it they can see the difference and then they can believe me.

Also, instead of downplaying the situation "Admin" just maybe help out a young fella will you? I am asking for a solution that would prevent me from having my erections pressed up on my pants causing injury, not searching for a psychological help.

Now i have a big long curve going uppwards about total of 45-50 degrees, caused by probably 2 or 3 different dorsal plaques.
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