Just throwing some things out off my chest

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fabiopancheri

I live in Brazil, I'm 26 years old and have been on a long time ago, combined with some social phobia and personality disorder which always make my life harder, since, for example, I'm still not graduated on something, and simple things like go get driver's license and learn to drive. Also my low self-esteem about my appearance (5'4'' height), and have no friends.

Due to that I'm only able to lost my virginity with 24 years, and seriously, back there I caught me thinking I could get to 40 years without any relation.

So all this time I just have sex four times, but right on the first relation I noticed something that I never give importance since I haven't had any kind of relation (just masturbation), the downwards curvature of my penis. And before I realized that I have been even worst, because is another terrible thing in my already complicated and sad life.

So I started search a little about Peynonie and congenital curvature and found this forum, but being one of these conditions or not the fact is my penis when erect isn't look like is full erect, it's seem is half-erect you know what I mean? Also the shape looking like a banana. I remember I'm trying penetrate on the missionary position and since it's not straight the penis started to bend on the middle, and there i'm trying to fix it using my hand and the girl noticing, really embarrasing. The others girls was a little better but I found a difficult too, and I'm certain about they don't like at all since after the meetings they never talked to me again...


Well, i'm still live with my parents and never had talked about sexuality with then, never go to the urologist etc, so I'm really shy about that, I'm even sure they still think I'm a virgin.

I just feel to write here cause it's another terrible problem to put on my "list of fails in life". Maybe I was never meant to have sex anyway, I'm so screwed...

james1947

I don't know how is in Brasil, but I am living in the far east and here and her 5'4" is normal :)
My wife (female not male) is 4'11" that is normal for woman.

Regarding the woman you met, maybe they were not for you or maybe you showed insecurity and this was why you didn't met them again, not your penis shape was the reason.
I suppose you don't have too much experience with woman (you wrote that) so you need to educate yourself in the subject.
Sex is not just penetrating and is not like masturbation.
Have many positions that your down curve will be fine.

Penises are coming in many shapes, but if the downward curve bothers you, you should see a doctor and he may tell you what are your options if you want to straiten it.

Regarding relations, you have to be out at school, work and places of entertainment to met woman, people in general

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum

Jack1909

Be aware that if your curve is severe it might interfer with blood to flow in and this might the reason you experience weak or not complete erection. It's not so unusual in fact reading histories about people whose erectiions got better after having their penis straightened (even if it's a very delicate surgery often coming along with terrible side effects).  
31 yrs old
Severe congenital curvature. 3 straightening surgeries
Big lump/stitch w/ left deviation after 2012 surgery
Severe ED after last one in 2014. Still crooked
Slightly improved w/ shockwave therapy
Looks like only one side of my penis works

LWillisjr

Quote from: fabiopancheri on December 15, 2017, 08:55:19 PM

I noticed something that I never give importance since I haven't had any kind of relation (just masturbation), the downwards curvature of my penis.

If your curve is banana shaped then it is likely a congenital curve. Are you able to measure your curvature?
Developed peyronies 2007 - 70 degree dorsal curve
Traction/MEDs/Injections/Surgery 2008 16 years Peyronies free now
My History

fabiopancheri

Quote from: james1947 on December 15, 2017, 09:57:02 PM
I don't know how is in Brasil, but I am living in the far east and here and her 5'4" is normal :)
My wife (female not male) is 4'11" that is normal for woman.

Regarding the woman you met, maybe they were not for you or maybe you showed insecurity and this was why you didn't met them again, not your penis shape was the reason.
I suppose you don't have too much experience with woman (you wrote that) so you need to educate yourself in the subject.
Sex is not just penetrating and is not like masturbation.
Have many positions that your down curve will be fine.

Penises are coming in many shapes, but if the downward curve bothers you, you should see a doctor and he may tell you what are your options if you want to straiten it.

Regarding relations, you have to be out at school, work and places of entertainment to met woman, people in general

James

Thanks, yeah I have a lot to improve in my life, like first my mental health as I said I have depression. Started again taking antidepressants. At least the medication never maked me me impotent but still it's hard, I need to get out from home as soon as possible cause now I'm jobless again and having been at home all the time sleeping and thinking on bad things. Also my social network is zero, when I working I just go and back from work to home. I only get laid due apps like Tinder...


Quote from: Jack1909 on December 16, 2017, 03:31:32 AM
Be aware that if your curve is severe it might interfer with blood to flow in and this might the reason you experience weak or not complete erection. It's not so unusual in fact reading histories about people whose erectiions got better after having their penis straightened (even if it's a very delicate surgery often coming along with terrible side effects).

My curve is not too much severe I think, but even without any pain or difficulty getting an orgasm there is still a chance to have a problem on blood circulation? Thanks.


Quote from: LWillisjr on December 16, 2017, 01:41:51 PM
If your curve is banana shaped then it is likely a congenital curve. Are you able to measure your curvature?

I have a protractor here but I have no idea how to measure. I read that a way to do is taking a picture of me and trying overlay the protractor on monitor for example? It seems inaccurate to me but is that it? Thanks.

LWillisjr

fabiopancheri..........   2 things.

1. When quoting others we ask that you edit down to just the relevant text just to save space and avoid long posts that don't make sense. Our forum rules describe this.  :)


2. Following is a link for help on measuring yourself. If you have any questions PM me. I have helped several do this.

https://www.peyroniesforum.net/index.php/topic,4760.0.html
Developed peyronies 2007 - 70 degree dorsal curve
Traction/MEDs/Injections/Surgery 2008 16 years Peyronies free now
My History

NeoV

You're not screwed, at all. If you only just recently lost your virginity and have social phobia, then you are likely to change massively over time so long as you keep on aiming for more experience and personal growth. Your penis barely matters at all, like almost zero. Girls get bored with a guy even if his dick is straight or big after a couple times with him. It's more important to learn to be social and learn to have a lighter more fun energy about you. Seriously, you're going to be fine in time, don't give up!