Is life living without sex?

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kuaka

I personally consider it worth living.  Having this dreaded thing take sex away has made me much more aware of other things about life.  A focus on general health so that "normal", non-sex activity is more enjoyable is part of what has caused thread drift, and I apologize for my part in that.  

There is much to life which makes it worth living even if sex is a no-go for the time being.  

I am more healthy now than I have been in a while in most areas other than the obvious.  Eventually, this issue will be corrected with me as well, even if I wind up with the "nuclear option"...but I will hang on and investigate and try other things in the meantime.  If a suitable treatment isn't found before I can "hang on" no more, "nuclear option" it is.  Of course, there is the financial aspect of that as well, but it is a bridge I will cross when I get to it...if I get to it.

For all I know, an inexpensive effective treatment is just around the proverbial corner.  This is true for all of us.

nowhereman

Obviously blowing your brains out over a busted dick would be stupid. Especially for anyone rich enough to be spending time on this forum. If that is what the thread title portends to. My view is that life all over this planet is and has been a horrific nightmare throughout history, that most peoples lives are utterly tragic and all it is is relentless suffering until you inevitably kick the bucket. So framed that way a busted dick ain't much to complain about. Especially when you realize how much of the day will you be spending using it. 1% or less, if you're lucky. That's not to say it doesn't royally suck. And I can't get behind these older fella's who are a couple years deep or less in busted dick telling us otherwise. Get over the ten year mark, when you're still in your twenties. Then your opinion gets some pull. <---Not trying to downplay any individuals experience.
The best anyone can do at life is be able to put their suffering aside and get to work and create value. You may not enjoy life but you can still be successful. That may sound backwards but we can't all live in fantasyland.

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What's the point to live without sex? It's devastating you slowly, you feel like a cripple and almost nothing can't be done...

kuaka

Quote from: nowhereman on September 01, 2017, 06:44:00 PM
The best anyone can do at life is be able to put their suffering aside and get to work and create value. You may not enjoy life but you can still be successful. That may sound backwards but we can't all live in fantasyland.

The advantage of this approach is that at some point in time, the available successful treatments and your personal affordability will cross.  Either through your own personal success financially, the price of procedures, or new developments in treatments or some combination.  Never say never.

nowhereman

Definitely Kuaka. And long-term I am EXTREMELY optimistic. People here talk about how the same treatments are being used as 10 years ago. Well I am sure as hell that the next ten or fifteen years ain't gonna be like the last. I believe in 20 years this forum won't exist. And not because the bills weren't paid.  ;)

So stick around fella's.

Ralf3

If this is going to work in December this year, then we can literally wait for our phones to ring.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnLvmSoHqiE

lessor

Quote from: Ralf3 on September 07, 2017, 10:45:24 AM
If this is going to work in December this year, then we can literally wait for our phones to ring.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnLvmSoHqiE
What do you mean with that?
If you are comparing that to do reference to penile transplants, penile transplants have already been made, I believe have been made two or three, the problem is if you do that yo will need take pills all your life

Ralf3

lessor, it was a joke. If they manage to transplate a human head sucessfuly (what must be the greateat challgenge in modern medicine), the penile transplantation should be a piece of cake then and they alone will call us to undergo it. :)

Jack1909

You'll never succeed to have a penis transplant as no one doctor in the world would chop yours off in order to replace it. It's not about a kidney transplant, doctors will never grab the idea that a penis is worthy of a transplant. It won't happen to any of us no matter if you are willing to do it. So get it out of your head..youll be answered to go for an implant.

Thus the waiting list is up to 3 years..better rely on something else.
31 yrs old
Severe congenital curvature. 3 straightening surgeries
Big lump/stitch w/ left deviation after 2012 surgery
Severe ED after last one in 2014. Still crooked
Slightly improved w/ shockwave therapy
Looks like only one side of my penis works

swiss

Any vanity related transplant or augmentation is = to big money. Woman make their breasts bigger for vanity reasons and guys have always wanted longer penises...so yes lab grown penis transplants will very much be a thing once they get it going and it will benefit both us and those just wanting bigger dicks.  

JohnWright

The human head transplant is scheduled for Dec 2017 in China (for serious).

And to bring us from the Dark Ages into modern medicine, these early stories of penis transplants have already occurred:

1) https://gizmodo.com/surgeons-perform-first-successful-penis-transplant-in-t-1776843260
2) Man undergoes penis transplant after it was amputated | Daily Mail Online

Paolo

Also CRISPR editing technology may hold hope for damaged cell repair for autoimmune disease, peyronie's is thought to have an AI link  :-\
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.

james1947

I think we should concentrate on other topics as the topic owner, Thisismyusername , was last online at September 25, 2016
Just saying  ;)

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum

popopo

Of course life is living without sex. Life is living without love as well. It's a crappy  worthless life where you have to be super humble not to go insane with raginf jealousy of all that's getting laid, but it still is a life. Could be worse! You could be tortured to death in a cave somewhere in the middle east or get eaten alive by a lion. All in all peyronies isnt too bad compared to how life F~@ks some other 2 percent of the people. Hope that makes us all feel a littl3 better..
Age: 25
Date of onset: 17
Symptoms: sharp pains, numbness, change in shape/size, hourglassing and discolaration from jelqing/VED usage as a teen. Diagnosed with a venous leak and possible scarring.
Treatments tried: cialis, pentox and VED didnt help

Hrvat21

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I mean, you can F^@% and make women cum with your hands and mouth, most of the women would be very happy with that. It just sucks and is unenjoyable for you lol. You can get laid all the time if you want

popopo

True, so can other women. Difference is that they have lesbian non-penis orientated sex. But yeah like you said, we can still have unenjoyable boring sex like a middle aged man. Or what I like to call it "foreplay". Maybe I'm weird for wanting to be a man and be able to "F~@<" as well.
Age: 25
Date of onset: 17
Symptoms: sharp pains, numbness, change in shape/size, hourglassing and discolaration from jelqing/VED usage as a teen. Diagnosed with a venous leak and possible scarring.
Treatments tried: cialis, pentox and VED didnt help

james1947

To the topic question:
Not for me, even at 70 :)

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum

Hrvat21

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I understand man, it's frustrating as hell destroying relationships with women because of it and in a way running away from them when you want them all the time if you are like me, but we will fix it eventually, if nothing you can install implant and from what i've read, lgx implant can restore size lost by peyronie's over time, you have traction and ved and similar stuff, it's just hell living against your instincts untill then

Iamdavid21

I'm confused, and baffled honestly, at the idea that people choose to compare their struggles/issues with others to feel better about themselves. No one is living your life, and you're not living theirs. Your issue is valid, you're allowed to feel whatever that issue brings out of you without having to compare yourself to someone else for validation.

With that said, no one can tell you whether it's worth living life or not because of your issue. Every man has a different standard for life. You can downplay sex all you want. And you can get super preachy and convince yourself that sex isn't what we think it is, it is.

I'd rather live a life trying to better it every hour of every day then to give in to the beautiful, but delusional, narratives to ease my discomfort.

Just a thought  
Age 24. Complications and worsening, age 22. 
ED. Estimate curvature 40 degrees upward. Shortening in
length. Narrowing in width.
Treatments; Cialis. Pentox. Stretching. Pump.
Dr. Levine 9-3-21 no help

LWillisjr

That thread is 5 years old, so I doubt you get any response.
Developed peyronies 2007 - 70 degree dorsal curve
Traction/MEDs/Injections/Surgery 2008 16 years Peyronies free now
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