Nocturnal emissions?

[Thinker]

So I've been trying to avoid masturbating since that makes my penis hurt and makes the hourglassing worse but for sometime I've been getting wet dreams almost everyday and waking up to pain isn't pretty does anyone have any helpful solutions and again I'm 19 with a straight erection and some pain in the penis along with thinning(hourglassing) of the penis.

[kuaka]

I haven't been 19 in decades.  I encourage you to start on some scar tissue softening agents immediately...in particular, start a Magnesium supplement of some sort, as deficiency seems to be a common factor.  Read up on the other supplements...note the difference between those which encourage circulation (which you don't appear to have trouble with at this time) and those which soften scar tissue.  The sooner you get started on softening the scar tissue, the better off you'll be.