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jbvertigo

New member and I am still trying to wrap my arms around this ridiculous situation.  I think of those on this forum as brothers in arms.  What a fight we are all having.  I am on Pentox but only about a month.  I am also on vitamin E and L-Arginine.  I have the start of a curve upward.  Is this the freakiest thing you have ever encountered?  As you all are I am devistated.  I am 60 years old, married to a beautiful woman of over 21 years.  She and I have always had a wonderful sex life.  I am so afraid of what this will do to her.  She keeps saying the right things like , we can be creative, we can work this out.  However, I feel like their is a train coming and she doesn't even see it.  I have seriously considered just leaving.  I know that sounds insane but just looking at her is painful to me right now.  I feel positive some days and others I am so down I can't hardly stand it.  I am a cancer survivor, I have reoccurring vertigo which I thought was the most awful condition in the world and then I get this.  I may change my name legally to Job......How do you guys do it?  How in the hell do you do it?

Old Man

jb:

I need to add my 2 cents to your post below. Peyronies Disease is really one of the most devastating problems (note that I call it a problem not a disease!) that any man or woman can incur.

My Peyronies Disease history dates back to the 1950s at the early age of 24 years of age, full of piss and vinegar when it came to sexual desires! I have always been ''over sexed'' as my uro put it. So, I have over 60 years of experiencing the effect of Peyronies Disease which finally led to some amount of ED at age 55. Many therapies have been used over these years to overcome the problem.

Now, in 1995 I had a radical prostatectomy that led to total ED. The VED therapy was prescribed for me to combat the ED. Fortunately, the VED therapy that I used for over a year got rid of my Peyronies Disease symptoms as well as providing a way to have satisfactory sex again.

Today, I am totally free of any and all Peyronies Disease symptoms and can have sex with a natural erection any time I have the desire. So, you must find a way of therapy that will at least give you some signs of improvement and give you a much better peace of mind about it.

Only you can ''dig'' yourself out of any depression that Peyronies Disease is causing you. You have to find some method of giving your self a better outlook on the problem. There are many members who have faced the same depression you now encounter and have found ways to overcome it. So, step back, take a good look at your situation and ask yourself and your wife/partner what they can do to help. You will find that there is light at the end of the tunnel!!!

Best regards to you my friend, Old Man
Age 92. Peyronies Disease at age 24, Peyronies Disease after
stage four radical prostatectomy in 1995, Heart surgery 2004 with three bypasses/three stents.
Three more stents in 2016. Hiatal hernia surgery 2017 with 1/3 stomach reduction. Many other surgeries too.

james1947

jbvertigo

I can't add nothing to Old Man post. It includes every advice you can get.
I can just say about myself that I was there, where you are today, with devastating consequences on my life, but I am not there anymore with the help of the veterans of this forum.
QuoteI have seriously considered just leaving
It will be a huge mistake from your side. You must to fight, retreat should not be an option.

James
Age 71, Peyronies from Jan 2009 following penis fracture during sex. Severe ED.
Lost 2" length and a lot of girth. Late start, still VED, Cialis & Pentox helped. Prostate surgery 2014.
Got amazing support on the forum

emasculated

QuoteHow do you guys do it?  How in the hell do you do it?

I don't know! I get through each day somehow.. that's all I got. If I get through it without anxiety and panic attacks or say only 1 or 2 I count it a good day.. and if I can sleep at night. Other than that I got nothin. If you figure out the answer let me know...
"Without health life is not life; it is only a state of languor and suffering - an image of death."

inkhorn

Jb- Hang in there. There are plenty of ways to have penetrative sex with a dorsal curve. The best of which is the missionary position with a pillow under the ladies bottom. I like the Old Man have Peyronies and have had a prostatechomy. I'm 100% ED and use the VED for both therapy and sex. BTW if you want to change your name to Job, you'll be pretty blessed, read the last chapter of the book. Regards Inkhorn

melting

Get all the information you can get and make an educated descicion on what to do.
There are many who got better through different ways.

Be curageous and pull yourself up whenver you let yourself down(giving up = nono).
Your partner will follow you. It will get to be a problem with partners if you feel sorry for yourself all the time.
Daily Transdermals and Traction/VED solved my Peyronies Disease https://www.peyroniesforum.net/index.php/topic,12587.0.html (DMSO+X)

Hontas

I want to ask this, a cancer survivor thinks that Peyronie's is worse, then I actually finally feel like I am not the only one thinking this could be one of the worst things that could happen to a man